So theres a girl who knows this guy who she considers really mean and creepy. And this guy isnt exactly the easiest guy to get along with either...He doesnt tell her he likes her, but she finds out eventually when he lets her know "indirectly". She responds to this by running away whenever she sees him, aka avoiding. He had a REALLY REALLY GIGANTIC crush on her though. So what would you have done.
2006-08-23 20:27:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just to mention, this is not me that im talking about, but the girl i am talking about, was friends with him for a few years, then she started becoming scared of him and angry at him.
2006-08-23 20:40:10 · update #1
Tell him up front! It is unfair to lead him on (contrary to what you may think, the whole avoiding thing can be construed as being shy and flirty) and running away from this problem can lead to some rather disastrous results... particularly since you find him creepy as it is. Be honest, tell him you don't feel the same for him as he seems to feel for you, and be on your way to continue living your life.
2006-08-23 20:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by Whatev' Yo' 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First consider if the guy is really mean and creepy the way she thinks. It may not be. She has already made judgements, and already decided that he is not the easiest guy to get along with. Has she been his freind or known him well enough to pass these judgements ?? Well, I am sure she's not. But with or without knowing him better, I guess she just cannot 'like' him the way he may be liking her. So, the only way is to be good freinds. It would be really sad that someone she thought who is mean, creepy and not-an-easy-guy, really likes her, and she cant even be freinds with him. How long will she avoid and run ? That is being mean now. She must be good freinds / casual freindship, a hello, a goodbye, or something like that and then take it from there. If the '''i-cant-like-him'' is still there, then let it be, and slowly he'd know that you really dont have those feelings, and drift away himself, or else she can be as mean and creepy and tell him how much she hates him (which is really sad).
good luck
2006-08-24 03:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not been a pussy and just said it directly to the person. Instead of avoiding and feeling weird and awkward...just flat out say it. You'll feel better and if he doesnt stop report the sucka.
2006-08-24 03:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by tombomber27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend became scared of him for a reason. If you seem to agree that he's not easy to get along with, then you should understand her actions. If you don't, why don't you try going out with this guy first?
2006-08-24 03:47:14 · answer #4 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You indirectly say sry tht you don't like them b/c he's not the right guy..make up or find little sayings to make him feel better..."it's just not the right time"..."i don't c a future with u"
2006-08-24 03:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by Neutro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she shouldn't totally avoid him just cause he likes her. She should sit and talk with him and explain how she would just like to be friends...I hope I helped
Votre Amie,
Brittany
2006-08-24 03:34:06 · answer #6 · answered by Brittany C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comeon
start liking him
whats so difficult about that?
2006-08-24 03:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by Jill-mommy of a cute lil fellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them you dont like them.. and say get out my face and i never want to see you again
2006-08-24 03:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by avocadoadam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on don't waste time on someone who doesn't feel the same
2006-08-24 03:29:39 · answer #9 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont lead anyone on.
2006-08-24 03:29:27 · answer #10 · answered by Love Is Pain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋