Even if it was a year ago...or 2 months ago. Maybe it lasted 1 week....maybe 6 months or longer. Would you tell ?? And why?
What would happen ?....
2006-08-23 19:25:14 · 21 answers · asked by CraZyCaT 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No i wouldnt tell him!If its over and your not doing it anymore why even bother.Id keep my mouth shut and hope like hell he never found out what a slut i was!
2006-08-23 19:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by blondie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The experts tell you NOT to tell. They say it is hurtful for your spouse and as long as you know it was a mistake and would never do it again, there is no reason to tell.
Now, I don't think the same would hold true if there was an actual affair going on. As in something that lasted for more than say....... a week. If its been going on that long, then you should always tell your spouse.
After all, its their life too, and they need to make the choice whether to stay or go over something as unforgiving as infedility.
2006-08-24 02:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by Kalighe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe all the answers will be no. Why would anyone tell something that has already become a past knowing that your spouse may not accept it. Even if your spouse are great enought to forgive you, the scars will forever be casted into the heart. Likewise, ask yourself will you be able to accept hearing your partner to tell you that your partner has ever slept with a third party.
2006-08-24 02:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by dolphin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No. I would kind of be afraid to tell my spouse, for the fear that he might leave me, or get angry, and never find it in his heart to forgive me. But then again, If i do tell him, it will be honest, and I would never feel guilty, if i told him.
2006-08-24 02:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never cheated on my .ex. wife but she was doing it that is why she is now my.ex. every sence.2003. . as for cheating if i stooped that low . yes i would be man enought to tell . after all i have a habbit of being hope to telling the truth. ?
2006-08-24 02:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always wondered why people tell becauese it usually ends a marriage. I would say, end it quickly. and never look back.
2006-08-24 02:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep i did before we were married and i can clean about it two weeks later honesty is the key so is communcation!!! And because i did he has never held it against me or used against me!!!!!!
2006-08-24 10:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by lori b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. who knows what he does when we are not togeather. Worst stil if he has betrayed my trust before. No one is perfect.
2006-08-24 02:30:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, but i'd be packing my bags and move on becuase if she was like me she'd never trust me again because lier's never win
2006-08-24 02:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by wilco254 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no. i will definitely lose his trust if im gonna tell him.
what im gonna do is start being faithful and try my best to prove him that i love him sooo...
2006-08-24 02:30:31 · answer #10 · answered by ... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋