2006-08-23 19:19:37 · 22 answers · asked by all_smiles420 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It depends on how he'd stop pleasing me sexually. If it was because of sexual dysfunctions then I'd be understanding and try to make our sex life better. But if it was because he just didn't want to have sex with me even if I'd try to spice up our sex life well I think I'd leave him after a while.
2006-08-23 19:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by Isabelia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't leave someone because they stopped pleasing you sexually, you find a way to reverse that..If you have to bring an outside party you do, If you need to go out on your own you either discuss that with them, or you be really safe. Anything done repetitively gets old and doesn't feel good or the same anymore. Try something extreme and see what happens you might enjoy it more than you ever thought.
2006-08-24 02:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes i think yes but deep down i know what i will not leave him. we are going threw that phase of no sex right now and sometimes i get so mad at him and feel like i want to leave but then i get over it and remember what a treasure i have. Our relationship was never built around the bedroom that was just a added bonus. and if that bonus is gone for a while then oh well.
2006-08-24 02:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by ~Mrs.C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have not had a physical relationship in almost 10 years (not even hugs and kisses), many times I have thought of leaving, but as of yet have not. Maybe you can sit down and talk it out with them. Tried this and show went nowhere. But if you both are truly caring, talk about it and decide. Sex is not the only thing in a relationship
2006-08-24 02:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by auhunter04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is my spouse that means we are married, if we are married i vowed to love him for better or worse---so the answer is no. More important than just sex--is love, monagomy and commitment---that is sexy. Sexual pleasure works both ways...so try new things--spice it up for yourself and him or her. Otherwise it sounds to me that maybe you have already ventured outside to find you own pleasure---in which case only your heart can answer that question. Just remember--just because he may be a good lover, doesn't mean he'll be a great husband---some of us may be lucky and find the equilibrium in that and make it work! Good luck!
2006-08-24 02:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by pmbrundle74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you are really in love with him and vice-versa. However, it is better to speak it out with your spouse and if the reason is as bad, you can prefer to leave.
2006-08-24 02:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by Chakravarthy S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-08-24 02:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm the guy here and my sex drive is way down!
it would bother us but we both have learned some wonderful alternatives that satisfy us and our communication is total and honest so we just 'do it' if and when the urge hits us (i'm 68, she's 62).
won't bore you with the details of how we make enjoyable sex except to say that these methods are taught in many relationship books........look it up!
2006-08-24 02:40:17 · answer #8 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd eventually leave if I've repeatedly talked to him about the problem and he shows no interest in changing.
2006-08-24 02:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are, whether you have kids or not and if you are married.
Other than that, I would say no. There is more to a relationship than sex. Get a vibe. I did.
2006-08-24 02:39:30 · answer #10 · answered by Kylie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋