I love you. Can you love me ? Is love remain steady only on giving and taking buiseness ? A mother loves her child . Its also a love . Please explain - what is love ?
2006-08-23 19:15:03 · 10 answers · asked by p_chakraborty 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Music
let me love you . Nothing more I can give you . Do you agree ?
2006-08-23 19:19:07 · update #1
There was a time in my life when I became afraid to fall in love.
Because every time I fell in love, I got hurt.
I thought maybe that's why it's called falling in love.
I would give my all, loving deeply and wholeheartedly.
It would be a truly emotional and euphoric experience.
I would be dreaming about the object of my affection day and night, imagining good times together, thinking of what I can do or buy for him to show how much I care.
I would feel light, energized and excited, blooming with the joy I feel inside.
Then somehow, something would go wrong and my whole world crash.
Disappointed, Resentment, Anger, Pain, Why?
Can we not love without feeling pain?
Is it really a price to pay for all the happiness we feel when we're in love?
It was only after many years of soul searching and reading inspirational writings that I realized that we could love without getting hurt.
Only recently did I understand what unconditional love is all about.
Love is one of the most powerful forces in the universe.
It is the fire that burns inside, the essence of being.
It is a precious gift that defines our purpose in life.
If we keep in mind that we can indeed preserve its true meaning, we can love to the fullest and be truly happy.
Accept the fact that other people express theirlove differently.
How do you express love?
You say "I love you three times a day".
You kiss and embrace as often as you can.
You never forget anniversaries.
You always prepare his favorite dishes.
How does he express love?
He rarely says, "I love you".
He seldom kisses you.
He forgets your birthday and he doesn't know how to cook.
But he works overtime, walks the dog, takes out the garbage,
takes you to the movies and calls you "Honey".
He probably loves you more than you can imagine.
He just shows it differently.
If you can accept that then you will have a healthier perspective of your relationship.
Derive happiness from giving love.
When you love, do it because you want to.
Just give it.
And cherish the satisfaction in having given someone something of yourself.
It's like giving a gift whether it is appreciated or not, find joy in simply giving.
Love without expecting anything in return.
Pain comes in when you demand something in return for the love you give.
You are setting yourself up for disappointment.
Love cannot always be reciprocal.
Love between two people can never be of the same intensity at the same time and place.
No matter how much your partner loves you, he/she will never fill all your needs all the time.
And you will be waiting in misery forever, if you believe you should love only when you are sure to receive equal love in return.
Love now.
The past is gone and the future is justa dream.
All of yesterday's aches and pains, as well as the loves and laughter, are mere memories.
Let them go.
Fantasies and worries are for a future that may never come.
Don't dwell on them.
Live now.
Give love now. Do it and enjoy it now.
Throw away those destructive habits.
When you insist upon yourself that you always have to be in control, that you always have to be right, that others must always please you, you put yourself in a very tight spot.
Loving relationships are flexible- Dynamic and evolving.
Leave room now for a change interaction.
Allow for new behavior and learning experiences.
When we welcome these in our lives, we open ourselves to sharing more love and affection and less frustration and pain.
Yes, you will say unconditional love is easier said than done.
Especially when we have always believed that love is give and take.
But believe that love is simply giving.
And you will be surprised that a lot of it, even more, actually comes back to you .
THIS IS MY EXPERIENCE OF LOVE AND LOVE IS NOT ONLY PHYSICAL SATISFACTION
2006-08-27 09:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by Avatar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is deeper than the skin.
Its a wounderful feeling where only beauty resides.
In love you want to destroy yourself therefore it is blind.
Love can sustain all hardships.
It is not a business but the capacity to give without asking and without looking for the returns.
2006-08-23 19:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by Rainbow 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've yet to experience love but I do believe in it. Because of the power of love people have done a lot in history. For me, when a person affects your body and your mind then you are feeling somewhat of love. You dond't think it you feel it when that person inspires you to be better.
2006-08-23 19:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by marian m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If that had been the case, a mother would neveer loved her kids, a sister would never loved her Brother.
Love is more beyond the words.
2006-08-23 19:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by vishakha b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that depends on the love which u r looking for...if u r looking for physical love its termed as LUST not love..yes lovers get involved in each other as its natural and rules of binding together to make ur generation grow beyond...but love is not always abt sex...and all expect it i guesss
2006-08-23 19:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by hotgy4999 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, the sex isn't what "Love" is.
The only REAL LOVE I've ever known is for my children.
2006-08-23 19:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOVE IS FEELING EMOTIONAL ABOUT A RELATIONSHIP AND CARING ABOUT IT, NOURISHING IT,WHEREAS SEX CANNOT BE CALLED LOVE, SEX IS A NECESSITY ARISING OUT FROM MUTUAL WAVES OR COMPULSARY PHYSICAL ATTRACTION, SO LOVE IS ACTUALLY PLATONIC AND SEX IS PHYSICAL.
2006-08-24 03:03:51 · answer #7 · answered by raseema 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you know great sorrow you will also come to know what love is! :~)
2006-08-23 19:17:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
no it doent mean dat only it is part of dat
2006-08-23 19:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is such thing as feelings.
2006-08-23 19:16:53 · answer #10 · answered by WiseWisher 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋