yesterday when we were walking, we saw my best enemy. I hates that person because she made my working area miserable, i even attempted to resign because of her, she is spreading gossips and makes fun of me. I feelt bad and hurt because i feel my bestfriend don't care to me anymore, i told her everything already and she's aware of what happened in my office. But according to her, it's not her fight and it's just fair to be civil. Do you think it is right? shoulkd i just keep quiet and accept her opinion? Any comment pls. thaks
2006-08-23 19:13:44 · 15 answers · asked by jewel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your friend is not your friend because if she were your friend she should'nt of smile at her and knowing this girl is f***ing with you like that if you were my friend real sh*t i would of whoop her a*s for my homie real talk. I would'nt need to smile at her for what your my friend. But in all she should'nt get in to it right. But in all if it were me im sorry i would of had to get at her for you. You should of been my bestfriend.
2006-08-23 19:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by nina j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, you are in a tough spot. When I was younger I probably would have agreed with you. But now I realize, I can't control my friends. I have to let them be who they are. I have several really wonderful friends who don't get along with each other. I am sure it would be easier for them if I wasn't friends with people that they don't like, but *I* wouldn't have as many great friends as I do. I have heard everything they had to say about each other. I let them know if I am expecting people they don't like to come to my parties - and I am not offended if they choose not to come because of it. Yes, I think they can be civil at each other, but I don't think they like it either.
Try not to drive your friend away is the only advice I can suggest, but even that is up to you. If it is too stressful to be around someone who is around your enemy, maybe you need new friends ...
2006-08-23 19:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by tigglys 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i feel what your feeling like but when i sit back and look at the situation, i mean your friend is right, this is not her fight and she has no reason to be mad at your enemy. if i were in your shoes i would confront your enemy and ask why she cares so much as to take time out of her day to chat about you..i mean she must really have a big heart to take time to talk trash about you right? as far as your best friend goes. i think you should talk to her and inform her yeah she is right and ask her what she thinks that you should do becuase she is your best friend..
2006-08-23 19:19:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is your friendship worth the agony, the easiest thing to do is apologize and make up. enemies come easily friends do not. who is the bigger person you for apologizing for getting upset or her for smiling. Make a reservation at your favorite restraint for lunch and say you are sorry for getting upset. and let it go. If she still goes around talking guess she wasn't that good a friend. Good luck
2006-08-23 19:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by auhunter04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bet you will not get mad at me if I will encourage you to try this:
as a human being it's hard but i will give you a hint:pray first:; here it is LOVE YOUR ENEMY! For sure if you can try that you will not feel betrayed by your bestfriend...take note bestfriend must be a bestfriend! gudluck!
2006-08-23 19:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's anything to break up a friendship over. She probably just doesn't want to make any enemies.
2006-08-23 19:17:30 · answer #6 · answered by akhaiyan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes just trying to keep the peace maybe she shouldnt smile at her but you cant expect her to be mean or hate her
dont worry your friend is fine she just doesnt want to fight with that girl
2006-08-23 19:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by scatter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is right, and you should stop trying to manipulate your friends before you find yourself without friends.
Everyone has the right to choose who they will or will not assosiate with, and it isn't right of you to expect your friend to dislike someone else just because you do.
2006-08-23 19:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you stupid? She just smiled cause she's not rude..enemy is a dumb word. Just b/c u're not mature don't make ur friend look stupid beside you.
2006-08-23 19:41:19 · answer #9 · answered by Neutro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know she probably hurt you sorry but sometimes you just have to let things go.
2006-08-23 19:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by mysterynwaiting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋