I have a huge crush on one of my parents @ school, i'm a preschool teacher and he's married and so am i. I do flirt with him and go out of my way to talk to him. I feel like a total turd but it's all completely innocent since i would never cheat on my husband. Is this wrong or just a flash back to my teen age years?
2006-08-23 19:03:00 · 7 answers · asked by pmemommy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no as long as it is harmless flirting! It is natural to still "get feelings" for other people and flirt, marriage does not make yea dead, dumb or blind to " human nature" some times i am sure we all wish that but it wont happen the key is to make sure never to act on it!! I flirt like crazy with my hubby's best friend they think it is funny and tease the hell out of me for it! But in the end they both know nothing will come of it any further then harmless flirting!
2006-08-24 02:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by lori b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to have any sort of sex or relationship with this
man.....U may find him attractive in some way. But U don't need
to act on it. If people did this everytime......we'd all be humping
everything in sight. No morals. Only Decadence. Stop flirting
now, before you do something you'll regret, and feel like a giant
humungous turd !!! How would you feel if some ho was wanting
ur man ?? U wouldn't like it. By hurting others u are hurting
ur-self. Please step back and be mature. Have some INTEGRITY girlfriend........be good. it is very wrong what ur doing
2006-08-23 19:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...this is a tempting one. I had one parent in the before school program who was always a sweetheart when he dropped his kid off. he was such a cutie. Well, we "bumped" into each other online and made plans to meet privately with each other but didn't go too far but it was a nice little secret that made me feel naughty. I don't think there's anyting wrong with a little flirting as long as things don't get unprofessional. In my case it did, but you don't seem like that's the case yet.
2006-08-23 19:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by D. L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some might say that having a crush when in a relationship itself means cheating..but hey as long as you dont act on it..its ok..and you need to something diff too right?
so carry on..there is no harm in crush and light flirting as long as both (the parent n u) of you know that nothing is ever gonna come out of it....
2006-08-23 19:07:42 · answer #4 · answered by v v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with flirting! Just remember your both married and have made a commitment.
2006-08-23 19:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're teeter tottering on turning into a ho. What you going to do?
2006-08-23 19:15:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as you're just flirting just don't let it get to far
2006-08-23 19:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by murkymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋