you are in a relationship but because of circumstances you and your partner are seperated by space...(it's about a long distance love affair now)..things went on just the normal way...all of a sudden, your partner/lover had been so silent for a couple of days, for a couple of months and until finally he/she completely abondoned you/the relationship (...to think that you've been in this relationship for 3years!)
2006-08-23 18:49:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should be glad that it's all over... Have you thought about those sleepless nights & listless days you had, just trying to figure out how faithful ur partner has been. It's time to move on & stop subjecting yourself to unnecessary pressures & stresses.
2006-08-23 19:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by Wholesome 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens alot,long distance relationships just dont usually work. because you start to have a life without them and meet different people and end up meeting someone you like than all of a sudden cause of guilt or they dont know how to end it they just ignore you so you can get the hint and slowly end it that way. Its a bad way but its easier than dealing with the breaking up right away.
2006-08-24 02:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by alwayssmiling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure , its all over , he is with some other person very near to him every day , then but naturally , he find more fun & joy then only talking and not sure when will meet again . Better be mature and start looking for someone very near to you can get a shoulder when want to cry . Good luck to you .
2006-08-24 01:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you long distance relationship is not easy to maintain. If u want to win her back, tell her straight and let her know yr future plans ( at least in 1 year to come)
Good Luck
2006-08-24 01:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by froggy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i kno exactly what u mean, i was with someone for 3 years and then it became a long distance one. i felt the love, care, and trust dwindling away, until finally it came to an end. i had to get myself up and rebuild, keep on going. can't let one monkey ruin the show!!! trust me i kno it hurts but in the end you will be a better person from it!!!!!!
2006-08-24 01:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by PButta 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happened with my very first boyfriend. After one year he just stopped coming up for the weekend. I waited every weekend and called his mom. He just disappeared. Then 3 years later in my senior year, he shows up like nothing happend, says he wanted to get back together, sleeps with me and I have never heard from him again. I wasted too much time mourning him. Please move on. Its over.
2006-08-24 01:53:47 · answer #6 · answered by noggle4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to come over.Try not to have anybody around gust be yourself . Something might of happened in the family.He is gust scared of letting you know.Hard to open up to .
2006-08-24 02:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've given your gift of love to this person.
Unfortunately, you are not receiving a gift of love back from them now.
Now, give yourself a gift of love.
Love yourself and let this person go.
2006-08-24 02:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by Here & Now 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should start looking to date again, sounds like they left you, out of sight, out of mind, out of the relationship, you got to keep it current or else its gone. maybe even before the space came between you...
2006-08-24 01:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by wizzard 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
2006-08-24 01:50:58 · answer #10 · answered by tina m 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋