i am a 19 year old girl. i ahve been dating this guy for a year now and really like him
he likes me too but; for the last 15 days he is trying to convince me to have group$x with his friend from college. i like him very much and dont know wat to do?
plz help me
2006-08-23 18:17:32 · 24 answers · asked by shannaz k 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
DO YOU EVER WATCH THE NEWS ABOUT THE GIRLS BEING GANG RAPED AT COLLEGE FRATS AND DORMS?
IF YOU GO WILLINGLY, THEY CAN HURT YOU BAD AND THERE WILL BE NO PUNISHMENT FOR THEM.
MEN GET SO AGGRESSIVE WHEN IT COMES TO SEX AND LOOKING LIKE A STUD IN FRONT OF THEIR FRIENDS!
YOUR BOYFRIEND MAY NOT HURT YOU (PHYSICALLY) BUT HE HAS NO CONTROL OVER THE OTHER GUYS!
you'll PROBABLY BE RECORDED, ABUSED, EXPLOITED, AND GET A DIEASE! PEOPLE WHO DO THAT ARE MORE LIKELY TO HAVE ONE OR TWO!
2006-08-23 18:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by Candy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him straight that you don't like it. If he loves you, he should stop asking. If he insist, it means he just use you as a sex toy.
You should act indifference to him if he keep asking, let him feel your feeling on him has changed because of his action. In this way, you don't need to break up and still can avoid ur bf from asking further for g.s.
I don't want to say too much as this is ur relationship. But I think asking for group sex is too much indeed.
Think about it.
edited: 10:22pm PST
Yes, as others mentioned above. You will lose your resepct once you do this for him.
Later, I am sure he will not love u as much as now if u really do this. After u did it, you don't want to let him go .. and then THE ONLY WAY you want to keep him is keep having group sex until u breakup!
2006-08-24 01:21:56 · answer #2 · answered by City hunter 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
confused for what? whether u love him or not? or to go for *** or not? u talk abt like only...
shahnaaz if this guy can ask something so idiotic at this stage he can ask u anything later...
can u compromise on everything he wud ask u to do just cos u like him soo much? wont u get a better guy than him who'd respect u for what u r and allows u ur freedom too?
think over again.... u lose ur identity now u cant get it back anytime again....... wanna do that?
dont do it sweety... its ur life .. dont be so hrash upon urself just to show that u love him
u love urself too.. right? dont do it
2006-08-24 01:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by sangy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it.
He is simply having fun with you. Once he has sex he will throw you like his old shoes.
You like him. I think you should stop doing that. you can certainly get better boys who will respect you and have sex only with you and not let his friends touch you.
Once you make this mistake he will treat you badly and not care for you nor love you. And you will end up with a brake down.
Do not do it.
2006-08-25 10:44:54 · answer #4 · answered by taurus23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like him. But he likes to have only sex with you. No good lover requests for such nasty,ugly and worst desires. He is highly dangerous man. Leave him and forget him immediately before your life is ruined.You will end up in prostitution if you accept.
2006-08-24 09:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by brilliant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear shanazz
I may tell you that i doesn't think that
YOUR BOYFRIEND LIKES YOU.
If he liked you then
HE HAD NEVER TRIED TO SHARE YOUR FEELINGS AND ULTIMATELY YOUR BODY WITH FRIENDS.
I humbly request you not to engage in these matters if you belong from a well cultured family and want to live a respected life.......
A boy as your well wisher
Anymore confusion contact me
deepankar_pbl@yahoo.co.in
2006-08-24 07:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by DEEPANKAR PAL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it frt me - This guy is a real jerk - he just want to show his pal how macho he is - n in the process you will get hurt both physically n emotionally. Firmly tell him that u r not a prostitute.
2006-08-24 03:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by islandboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go, you are much better than that. Regret comes in many colors and your own trepidation answers your own question. I hope you follow our advice and your hesitation. Don't do something you don't want to do because you will go the rest of your life asking why and for what.
2006-08-24 01:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by Michael T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont know about you but my man dont like to share me even just staring... If he loves you he will not dare..DARE! because he will want you for himself. Besides... if you agreed... there will be a second time, third time, and then people will talked about you.. People do tell you know and you dont want to be called a skank. Dear... dump him. He is only all about sex.
2006-08-24 01:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it girl. I guarantee you- you will feel so cheap afterwards. They won't have any respect towards you...and you will not be proud of yourself. It's a no-brainer. Say no!!!! Stay away from that pimp friend of yours...he isn't a real friend. Don't you see that? Wake up!!!
2006-08-24 01:43:48 · answer #10 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋