okay im omly 13 peoples!
see there's this boy and all last year he was so cute and he had a mohawk. and he knew i liked him. but he didnt ask me out. and the first dat of school i found out that he cut his hair and that really pisses me off. and yesterday he asked me out and i said no because he's ugly without a mohalk and to day he came to school with all kinds of scars all over his wrists and he told people he did it bcause without my love he wants to die. so now people think im heartless.and mean.they dont understand. am i a heartless person?
oh and by the way he's gothic and so am I.
2006-08-23 18:15:14 · 6 answers · asked by babyboo_inaz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
So you liked him all last year? Did you like him for him, or his hair? Im not sure it was more than skin deep if the haircut has changed your mind. That said if theres no connection there there isnt one and theres no point being false, thats worse. Remind him how old you both are.
If you dont feel strongly for him and this is the case be straight up as you couldnt build a relationship at any rate. He will be feeling vulnerable and if you are friends then be there for him. Things can develop from a friendship but be clear where you stand and have some fun, a friendship lasts way longer at any rate and he may meet someone through you that he gets on with just as you also might. He should get help or counselling for the cutting. Thats REALLY important.
2006-08-23 18:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by Harry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They only think you're a heartless person because you liked him because of his mohawk. If you really liked him, you'd like him for who he is, not what he looks like?!
He sounds like he really needs a friend. Just be there for him and listen...
2006-08-24 01:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa that is kinda heavy. it was a bit cold that you denied just cos of his hairstyle. if people know thats the reason you said no, thats why they are calling you heartless. but ultimately, its not you fault he cut himself. thats his own issues that he has to figure. maybe you made the right choice and are better off with someome more mentally stable
2006-08-24 01:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not your fault that you dont like him.
however, maybe it shouldnt be all about his looks.did you only like him cause he looked hot with a mohawk or because you liked his personality?
anyways, thats really bad that he cut himself and maybe you should talk with him about that.
just because you dont like someone, doesnt mean youre heartless.
2006-08-24 01:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by (Linzee18) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive him, but ask him politely to grow it back. But don't expect to have any power over what his actions are.
No, you are not heartless, just young and inexperienced.
2006-08-24 01:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you need a good F.cking.get real
2006-08-24 01:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by Heart B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋