how can i be the perfect gf?

Question

i've been with my bf, corey for a year now,we've been through alot, and we always used to fight, but when things got bad corey decided to go through anger anagement for me, and his teacher guy told him that most of our arguments are my fault. so the past month or two ive tried to not let little things bother me, and we havent been in any big fights, so i guess it was my fault all along. But i just dont want thngs to be better i want to be the best, most fun, sexy gf ever so, besides not being jelous of his friends and not being over bearing what else can i do to make him "say wow youre perfect!"

Answer 1

Ugh. I wonder if this relationship is already as good as over and you just don't know it? That's a completely different train of thought though. How to be the perfect gf? You need to just be you and see if you two are 'perfect' for one another. Don't get me wrong, a relationship takes work from both sides. But when I say that, I don't mean you need to try and be the perfect girlfriend. And his teacher told him that most of your arguments are your fault? Bullshit. No teacher is that stupid. He either misunderstood or is lying to you. Probably just him laying a guilt trip on you by the tone of this message. From the line "So I guess it was my fault all along" and just the simple theme of the question coming from the title "How can I be the perfect gf". This relationship, from what I'm reading, has a forumla for a crash and burn. The question is how many times are you two going to crash and burn before you stop picking up the pieces and rebuilding a lesser and lesser of a plain... Seriously, think about your relationship with him...

Answer 2

Don't let the teacher tell you if ypu're wrong or not...you tell youself. Impressing someone does not sound like the way to keep a relationship goin.

Answer 3

they say love til it hurts whatever that means...