Ok my B/f is almost 17 I am 15 we have been dating for about 4 months. My boyfriend believes all this crap that this guy Bryan is saying (ive known Bryan for about 3 years) Bryan likes me, however i do not like him for anything more than a friend. Bryan is getting into alot of trouble and is 22 years old. He is telling my bf that he took my virginity (which he didnt) and saying that we have slept together and making up lies about me. I think he is doing this so that my bf will break up with me, so he can get with me. Ive tried telling bryan that we cant and wont be anything more than friends and he says i dont need a guy like him.ectect and that he will treat me better than my bf will. Ive heard that Bryan is messing around with girls my age and younger. Anyways my boyfriend is believing all this crap he is telling him, then i get blamed for stuff then when i confront bryan an ask him why he is sayin this SH** he denies it. What can i do to make bryan stop making up lies about me?
2006-08-23 17:55:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well your bf should believe you...if he doesn't it is time to get a new bf..trust is important and if he doesn't trust you now down the road it will be something else.you really don't need that headache.your bf should be comforting you and telling you to not worry what Bryan is saying.If he can't do that well you need some one who will.....you can't make him stop talking unless you make a police report that he won't leave you alone and is slandering you.that's a whole other thing... good luck
2006-08-23 18:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to show your boyfriend that Bryan is making up lies about you is to put an end to your friendship with Bryan. Once your boyfriend sees that your relationship is more important that your friendship with this other guy he is sure to have a new found respect for you, and show you a little more trust. Lies can deffinately cause doubt in a relationship, and if you want the lies to stop, stop your involvement with the liar.
2006-08-24 01:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 17, i can understand why ur b/f can believe all this crap bec it really takes real maturity to trust your g/f no matter what other people say... i understand too how frustrated you are right now, but u see only u knows the real you and if this person (Bryan) is lying, best for u to just ignore him and dont give him the satisfaction of getting under ur skin.. if that wont stop him then try to be catty and fight fire with fire (spread news how a lousy lover he is) LOL... seriously if ur b/f believes this person then better start evaluating ur relationship, remember a love without trust is just a waste of time... good luck to u..
2006-08-24 01:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by sen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has got to be a time that the three of you are together at one time. If not, invite them both over at the same time. Confront the problem. And if your bf is giving you too much ****, then after you prove him wrong, dump him!
2006-08-24 01:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋