Here is a place to write your worst breakup stories,advice for dealing with a breakup,and how long you should take before getting with someone new.I just dumped my boyfriend of 3 months,who happens to be one of my best friends,and who I have know for almosta year before we started dating.
2006-08-23 17:42:30 · 14 answers · asked by movin12006 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Television
The summer before my senior year, I got my first taste of freedom and met a great christian guy. We became best friends and were inseperable. About a month later, we decided that we should start dating, everyone was already assuming we were. We had great romantic night walks, he built me campfires and he took me out on dates every chance he got.
My parents totally screwed us over. He was two years older, and in college, and I was a senior in hs. They said it was ok for him to come see me, (he lived about an hour away) and he even slept in my bed while I slept on the couch. But God forbid I got to even see in for part of the day. He lived with his parents, and they were strict Baptists! What did they think he was going to do?
He got frustrated with having to do all the traveling, and we kind of drifted apart. About a month before my senior prom, and about a week before his birthday, he called me one last time, and we kind of mutually broke things off. I eventually started dating another guy friend, and then moved out. I always wondered, what would have happended if I'd looked him up after moving out... I wish I could have atleast had some closure.
2006-08-23 17:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by I can see you... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But dude, didnt you dump him? why are you sad? also, there is no set time on when you can meet someone else. Do whatever makes you happy. In high School, I had to break up with the girl I had been dating of and on for four years. She was a cheeleader and I was a football player. Real cliche right? Well, we went off to diferent schools in the fall and then I ended up joining the service. I heard from her not too long ago. She is maried and doing good. But the sh*tty thing was the day I got her email was the same day I got orders to go to Iraq. Hows that for a breakup story
2006-08-24 00:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by Bobby the WOOD Heenan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in love with someone from Texas and left everything to go and be near, but after I got there, I realized it was a mistake. That was a year after we met. I would never advice someone to pursue a love relationship long distance... This was over twenty years ago and I still think about how foolish I was then. I do not regret it for it's better to have loved once than never. Although it did not turn out the way I had anticipated, I consider it a very rewarding experience because I learned a very important lesson and that was how weakness can lead to disaster in affairs of the heart.I have no-one to blame for that but myself. Needless to say, I have never let that happen again! And dating your best friend complicates the relationship.
2006-08-31 22:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by montralia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you got in the wrong section.This is for TV,musis and entertaining.I think.
But..never date a friend,once you become lovers you can never just be friends again. And since you asked how soon before you can get with sombody new,I would guess that you already have a new sombody or you wouldn't have hurt your best friend/boyfriend already.
2006-08-31 22:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by Raevens'Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 points
2006-08-24 00:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by S.P. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thou Shall Not Date Your Friends. How could you have broken one of the most sacred commandments of dating?
2006-08-30 14:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by Neb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
heyy heyy woahh.. i have a best friend .. a guy.. he went out with my best friend.. they broke up.. after like 2 months.. u know those immature highschool relationships.. and now were real close.. i love him to death.. but i think its going to be a while before we actually say were together.. its kinda weird.. i dont want to end my relationship with my friend that went out with him before.. so im just gona takkkkkkke it slowwwww but were close now too so its hard.. my friend doesnt know whats up tho.. ahh its good to let this out.hopefully you'll comment back on what you think bout my situation =]
2006-08-24 00:52:25 · answer #7 · answered by Love2loveYa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three months! Kiddo talk to me when you've been with him for nine years! Okay. I feel like I'm dying and I don't think that ever gets better.
2006-08-30 14:17:46 · answer #8 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can start dating now and i hope you and your ex can still be friends after all. good luck on finding mister right
2006-08-24 00:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by jonsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
errrrrr thanks for the 2 points and why did you even date your friend? never date your close friends; they get pyscho when you dump them and begin dating immediately!
2006-08-31 13:49:24 · answer #10 · answered by mole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋