I and this girl have been datign for 6 months...and we hadn't had any problems all the way..so far..we had so much fun together and she was very loyal to me and I was very loyal to her...and all of the sudden...she told me today that she wanted to end it with me because of her life..and she went on about how reality had struck her and how life is so unfiar and cruel to her.I really don't get it..but I am so devastated...I really dun understand why she must do this to me all of the sudden..I loved her a lot..:(
2006-08-23 17:33:23 · 7 answers · asked by Remus L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I and this girl have been datign for 6 months...and we hadn't had any problems all the way..so far..we had so much fun together and she was very loyal to me and I was very loyal to her...and all of the sudden...she told me today that she wanted to end it with me because of her life..and she went on about how reality had struck her and how life is so unfiar and cruel to her.I really don't get it..but I am so devastated...I really dun understand why she must do this to me all of the sudden..I loved her a lot..:(
She was alrite till last Saturday when I talked to her..and I asked thsoe who are close to her what was wrong and they said they don't know because she hadn't told them anything.
2006-08-23 19:50:39 · update #1
Sounds like you still love her a lot.
Sometimes you get the bear and sometimes the bear gets you.
There's nothing that you can do except try and get over it. You certainly can't force someone to love you. Move on, and try to "work like you don't need the money, love like you've never been hurt, and dance like you do when nobody's watching."
I know that's campy but it's the creed by which I live and it works for me.
Good luck!!
2006-08-23 17:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by Dahs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like something has happened in her life that has gotten her down. My advice to you is tell her that you are there to listen if she ever wants to talk but do not pressure her. I do not know what happened but it sounds like something pretty bad so right now be a friend but do not push. Allow her to see that you care and that you will always love her and be there for her but do not try to get her to open up about whatever it is. If you try to get her to talk before she is ready then she may totally turn away. She never said (according to you) that she doesnt love you so she may just have gotten hurt in some way and has began putting up walls and if you try to force anything you will be standing on the outside of the wall. Become her best friend and always make sure that she knows that you are there when SHE IS READY to talk. Good Luck
2006-08-24 00:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by lvb524 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you talk to somebody that she may have told sounds like to me that for some reason she is not feeling herself. Has somebody said or done anything to her that may have upset her. To me it does not sound like she really has the problem with you but more to do with herself. Ask some question I hope you find the answers
2006-08-24 00:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs Magoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really sucks when others hurt us . It won't help to try to hold onto her if she wants out of the relationship. As much as it hurts, it'll hurt even more if you try to push something she doesn't want. Today you hurt but trust me this shall pass. This I know.
2006-08-24 00:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by Zoey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to spend your life worried about why she is crazy and gave you that line of crap? Move on, you are great. Find another, there are plenty out there.
2006-08-24 00:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by noggle4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you still have lingering questions...the best thing for you to do would be to talk to her and ask her why. it will only help you with closure.
2006-08-24 00:35:58 · answer #6 · answered by christinaz22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and see if she'll talk to you and tell her how you feel.
2006-08-24 00:38:28 · answer #7 · answered by herbs411_42719 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋