his all time doubting me. he dont like im met with anybody specialy boys. i think he feels insecure i always telling truth with him but he dont believe on me.i realy dont understand wat i do? he said we both r not able to understand each other so he said we need to berekup.but i dont want to brekup with him coz i loe him so much,but according to him im very creless about him.we spending three years with our relation but always we r fighting he always have a problems with me.he said dont make a friend in boys coz according to him all boys r same.pls give me the right solution how can i handle this relation even once time he asked me have u any relation with your boss im seriously very heated.but i dont want to leav him i love him very much and i know he also love me very much. we both dont understand what shoud we do?plz help me!
2006-08-23 17:05:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sweet sister, you've spent three years with this guy. You're just three years older now. How about thinking for yourself and finding someone who will truly treasure you?
2006-08-23 17:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by whirled_queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
English is obviously not your first language and spelling is not your thing either, but I will give this a shot.
If he is constantly doubting you, then he does not trust you and is trying to control you. That is not love, no matter what you wish to call it.
If you are willing to put up with the accusations and are constantly trying to placate his little hissy fits over nothing, then that is not love either. That is stupidity.
2006-08-23 17:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sees u as very attractive .and he is probably a geek so no matter what he thinks ur always cheating. He needs to be a man and stop being insecure. Your a lovely committed lady dont take his ****.
2006-08-23 17:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by just me!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wants to have an excuse to break up. seems to me if he has no trust in you,the relationship is going nowhere. trust is the most important part of a real relationship. there is a saying: if someone can not trust, they can't be trusted. it's either that or he's not grown enough for a real relationship.
2006-08-23 17:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by CARLENE R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys always get intimadated when they see their girl speaking with another guy, even if it's just friendly conversation. But if this guy is constantly riding your back, and he actually said that he thought ya'll should break up, then break up with the fool! So many girls get caught up in one guy that they completely give up their control to him. Don't let that become you.
2006-08-23 17:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by lilmzAI aka basketball shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same case was mine dear.i m in love with a guy since 10yrs.he was same like ur guy.i kept patience.let him go wit his other gfs.i sacrificed controlled a lot dear.today he is in love with me more that me.can u believe.no we didnt saw each other since 3 yrs
as we r in diff countries.bt we r engaged now.we r getting married next year. i m very lucky that i got my love my life.
Just read it SET THE ONE U LOVES IF HE COMES BACK HE IS URS AND IF HE DNT HE WAS NEVER URS.if
u wannt ask more mail me at vandanadarling@yahoo.com tk cr dnt worry
2006-08-23 17:13:00 · answer #6 · answered by namita s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to relationship counseling, communication is important in a relationship. the answers here indicate a difficulty communicating in writing. so getting a third party to help the two of you communicate may be all you need.
2006-08-23 17:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by sllyjo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont get u..u question too long..that is a story of u.sorry i m not able to help u.
2006-08-23 17:11:01 · answer #8 · answered by sher_2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol......try using spell check!!
2006-08-23 17:07:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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What.
2006-08-23 17:06:16 · answer #10 · answered by Naked 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋