She is a student in my English class. On the way home we stopped by my house. One thing led to another and then it got crazy. Although she didn't tell her mom, a neighbor of mine recogonized her from the h-school when we were coming out my apartment holding hands. What should I do?
2006-08-23 16:45:37 · 16 answers · asked by jc20155 4 in Education & Reference ➔ Teaching
wow that sucks in as long as she wanted to do it then i believe its no problem as long as your not giveing her special treatment on tests. but the law dosent feel that way so i wouldnt go spreading it around.
2006-08-23 16:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by nikki fm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to this or you wouldn't be posting it here.
Is this in any way related to your other question about having a student in the class you teach who is a whore?
Come on now! Surely you have a head on your shoulders!
If you're old enough to be a teacher, then you're an adult. (Even if you're a prodigy, there's rules at every place of employment). If she's a student...then HANDS OFF! No ifs, ands or buts! And I didn't stutter.
Why was she in your car? Why did you stop before reaching whatever destination she was headed for? Is this the girl you called a whore? Then you knew what you were getting into. Then, if you left your apartment holding hands, but are now mentioning that, then "YOU" do see the err in that. Why did you do that?
There's no excuse for you!
Apologize to the young lady you abused and ask for her forgiveness.. Resign. Get an attorney.
But mostly, get on your hands and knees and pray to God for forgiveness.
I pray that the Lord of Harvest will open your eyes and bring you in.
God bless you!
2006-08-23 17:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by Proverbs31Mom 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well aren't you ignorant?
You can get fired, as you know, not to mention being charged with statutory rape if she is under 18.
You can only hope your neighbor keeps their mouth shut and this goes away.
Stay away from the girl - and geez, keep your pants on.
2006-08-23 16:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start packing to get out of town. You may have taught English, but now you're history.
2006-08-23 19:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by Know it all 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move out of the country and change your career
2006-08-23 17:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by lauburton 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That was pretty dumb to do with a student, and even dumber to get caught. You should have been thinking with the head on your shoulders.
2006-08-23 16:48:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
never, ever drive a student home. cardinal rule of the english profession, buddy.
2006-08-23 16:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on her age and the local laws. You might want to leave the country.
2006-08-23 16:51:27 · answer #8 · answered by Wyld Stallyns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better start looking for a new job. I'm pretty sure this will be grounds for termination.
2006-08-23 16:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by Mariposa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why were you holding her hand...?
I would talk to the neighbor....or go to your principal before she hears it from someone else...
be a good role model.....
2006-08-23 16:52:17 · answer #10 · answered by sleddinginthesnow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋