I am only 14 years old!And my occupation is prostitution. Most of my clients are older men in their 30's and 40's. One of my clients is my best friends father. SHe doesn't know but I think she is very suspicious, because one time at about one o' clock in the morining she walked in on me going to the bathroom and she asked me why I was there and I told her my parents got mad at me, so I came over. I was really there because her father had called me. The worst part is, is that her father is happily married for 15 years, and has two kids, my friend and her younger brother, Tim. I really want to stop my prostitution, but I am really addicted to sex and the pay is soooooo good!How do I stop???
2006-08-23
16:17:30
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His wife was on a buissness trip for the weekend. She travels alot because she is a sales rep. My parents don't notice because my dad is in prison, and my mom is a alchohlic, and refuses to recive the proper assistance.
2006-08-23
16:30:23 ·
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Riiiiiiiiiight!
Now come up with a good ending and you can probably sell that story to HBO/Cinemax.
14 years old?
Your grammar's too good.
Gimme a break!
2006-08-23 16:22:47
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answered by Dahs 3
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I'm not going to say I feel sorry for you. That is a decision you made your old enought to know that it's wrong. Sounds like you have a hard life at home you should be try to change your life not become part of theres. So far you've been lucky but what you are doing is very dangerous. For one there isn't a thing you can do if the guy wants to get rough with you you could wind up dead doing what your doing. If this is a joke that's fine call me a fool.
But if not PLEASE pay attention to what I said Be Safe
2006-08-25 06:51:04
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answered by robert d 4
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It is sad that your father chooses prison life. Your mother chooses to drink. Then you choose to turn to prostitution from older men.
Because your parents are messing up doesn't mean you should.
I am right now watching a documentary on Russia and prostitution who also turn to drugs to deal with it.
You are better than that.
If you are 14 now, by time you are 18, you could have various std's, pregnancy and even worse, HIV positive.
Stop is to not do it. It is simple. You need to go get some youth help on your addiction.
You love sex because you are getting that attention and that affection from these older men that you are not getting from your parents.
You don't realize these older men are taken advantage of you and are sick in the heads.
If you got pregnant by a 40 year old, do you think that he is going to be a good father to the baby?? Just think if he mess's with you as a child, he will do the same to the baby whether it is his or not. It is a cycle of child molesters and pedophiles.
2006-08-23 16:50:59
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answered by Mutchkin 6
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I am sorry to hear abt your family cuz I know how it feels but I don't think being a hooker is a great idea. Only you can help your self others only help you find the way
I hope you get therapy is not a bad thing it just helps you deal wit things
Best wishes
2006-08-23 17:11:45
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answered by Krazy 2
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WHY NOT?```````````WHY TO?
AIDS````````````````````Umm
HIV``````````````````````Littl... bit of pleasure
Death```````````````````Umm
Mental Abuse``````````Umm
Verbal Abuse``````````Umm
Physical Abuse````````Money
Herpes```````````````````Umm
Multipal STD's``````````Umm
No Steady BF``````````Umm
Illegal crime````````````Umm
Get kids````````````````Umm
Get a shrink and try to break the habit and find a better job. I suppose you had a reason to start. I figure it was probably yur mom drinking so much. Call a childs protevtive sevice or something. You parents ARE a good example for you. A good example of what not to do. If your dad can send and reicieve letters send him a letter telling him what you are doing then send the same letter to you friend. See what they say. If you were close to your dad or not he will not like what your doing. He messed up his life already. He probably wants the best for you and not to make the same mistakes or different ones.
2006-08-25 16:13:07
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answered by Anonymous
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I think you need to read the answers again. Most of them are saying to get some help and to quit cold turkey. I don't think you should be worrying about whether people believe you or not. I think you should read the answers again and listen to what the people are trying to tell you. I don't think therapy will help you because to be honest, I think you're beyond any help. I bet you're one of those people who refuses to listen to good advice and only want to take the easy way out. My advice to you is to learn that there is more to life than money, such as your reputation and your dignity. Do you have any dignity? Quit now and learn to respect yourself.
NO ONE CAN MAKE YOU STOP EXCEPT FOR YOU. NO ONE CAN TELL YOU WHAT TO DO EXCEPT YOURSELF. You're only 14, so if anybody finds out, you'll end up in juvenile hall, so quit it.
2006-08-23 16:55:21
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answered by angelolori1976 2
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You're 14 years old. You have your whole life ahead of you. Why waste it? When you become older, you can go and get a good paying job rather than sell your body for sex.
And by the way, your friend's father is a c u n t for screwing you when he's been married for 15 years AND he knows that you are friends with his daughter. He should be arrested, because that's technically rape.
2006-08-23 16:25:21
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answered by Lavina 4
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OMG If you are seriously telling the truth (sounds like it) You should really try to stop this prostituting right now. You are way too young to be that knowledgable about STD's, AIDS, etc. Don't your parents wonder where the money comes from? What did they do to you to cause you to have such low self esteem? Seek proffessional help before it's too late because you are not going towards the true destiny you deserve.
2006-08-23 16:21:31
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answered by *Larry P. he's for me* 4
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Note the difference in the first post and the addition. When a reply was made regarding your grammar skills and where your parents were, you changed styles a bit.
Your sentence structure and writing style does not match the character you are trying to portray. If you really lived the life you are describing, your writing style would better reflect your severe lack of intelligence.
Sorry, honey.. but this one is not a go. Next time match the posting style to the character. Or, better yet, try your hand at writing a novel.
Cheers!
2006-08-23 17:16:46
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answered by LittleBitOfSugar 5
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Wow, you need to stop. This is so messed up on so many levels. First of all, you're 14! Chances are at 14, you aren't fully physically or emotionally developed and you're going to mess yourself up later on if you keep this up. It may feel good now, but you'll be regretting it later. Get help and stop what you're doing before your friend finds out and you ruin more lives than there should have been ruined.
2006-08-23 16:22:36
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answered by Anonymous
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sex is very addicting like drugs, but if you are doing it with yourbff's dad how do you know he won't bring her in . What kind of dad is he. This sounds like too much bulls#$t to be true. Get a life or get help.
2006-08-23 16:35:32
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answered by RickeTy 3
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