Has anyone gone through this during end of pregnancy?

Question

I have been experiencing labor symptom but nothing is happening I was even put in the hospital all day and then just released I'm so tried of this I just want it over with I'm 39 weeks and cry non stop I can't wait to get this over with.

I have to have A c-section all my doctor says is your getting really close he does not answer any of my questions and I wish I could get another doc but it's to late to long of A story to explain how I ended up with this doctor.

Answer 1

you didn't specify what type of labor symptoms you are experiencing. however, as many have suggested it is probably Braxton-Hicks contractions. these are contractions of the abdominal muscles in preparation for real labor. the difference is there is no real uterine contractions. some of the signs of real labor include dull persistent aching in the lower back, and this back ache will eventually radiate around the sides of the abdomen with increasing intensity. you should be able to time them and need to go to the hospital when they are 5 minutes apart from the start of one until the start of the next. also if your water breaks you need to go to the hospital. sometimes this can come in a sudden gush, or other times it may be a constant leaking trickle that feels like you have to "pee" and you can't control the flow. with each of my children my water broke differently. another reason to go to the hospital would be large amount of bright red vaginal bleeding, with or without pain. this could be a sign that the placenta has been torn and would be an emergency for you and the baby. also if your pain is too severe and you can't tolerate it you should go in to be checked out.

don't worry... at 39 weeks that baby will be coming any day now. but from my experience they never seem to come until you stop worrying. i say take a warm bath (not hot), enjoy some good sex (unless otherwise advised by your doctor), take one last spin around the nursery and double check your hospital bag. then go walking every day, read a good book, or do something else you enjoy. ever heard the old adage, "a watched pot never boils"? baby's come when they are ready, not when we want them to. and if this is your first baby you are more likely to go all the way up to your due date. some people go as far as 2 weeks past the due date... this is not uncommon and many doctors will not induce labor until 42 weeks unless you or the baby are in distress. so in the mean time just try to relax. we'll all hope you go sooner than later, and if you are worried about any symptoms go back to your doctor's office or the hospital... worst case scenario if nothing's wrong they'll just send you back home, but at least you'll have peace of mind.

Answer 2

Is it Braxton Hicks? Did they let you know anything else or advise you to come back if the pain persists? I would def. call a doctor if not because this could be something more serious! I am sure you wouldn't want to chance this, besides if you're in that much pain you need to be at the hospital! Good Luck! By the way, I am not trying to get personal... but if you have recently had sex that may be an issue it is shown to cause women within their last month of pregnancy to go into labor.

Answer 3

Yes, that was me with both of children! It's called braxton-hicks contractions. I was so sure that I was in labor and went to the hospital twice with each child. I think part of it was, like you said, you just want so desperately for the pregnancy to be over. Everyone is going to tell you to just relax and that nature will take its course, blah, blah, blah. But I know how crappy you feel. I would suggest asking your doctor for a planned C-section. It is very common these days, and if you explain how distraught you are, I am sure you can find a doctor in your medical plan willing to do it for you. Cheer up- eat chocolate and watch a movie. Good luck.

Answer 4

Yeah, I had a similar experience with my first child. I had very regular contractions (among other labor signs)but no dialation. I went to the hospital and they kept me for a few hours and then sent me home. I don't know if this is your first child but it sound like it might be. The first time you have a baby your body responds a little slower because it's a new experience. Just try to relax and focus on something else. (I know that seems impossible) Do anything to distract yourself; rent a ton of movies, read a book, knit, anything and let nature take it's course. Also, if you can: walk, walk, walk ! This helps bring tha baby down the birth canal. Good luck girl.

Answer 5

I think everyone gets that way at the end of pregnancy. At least some of us will be honest enough to admit it. It is really hard being pregnant. Your body hurts from the inside out. You have to watch what you eat. And on it goes, and you really can't rhapsodize about the miracle of birth for the whole nine months.

Be honest with your doctor. Tell her that you have had enough and ask them to schedule an induction. It also sounds like you may be having some symptoms of depression. If these continue post-partum to the extent that you cannot function, call your doctor immediately.

Answer 6

I feel for you! Went through it twice - and was a week late on both and was completely miserable the last week. You feel like it will never happen, you'll just be pregnant forever. But, it will go faster than you think. Like others suggested, sex it supposed to speed it along, also walking, etc. I wouldn't go so far as to ask for a c-section. Both of mine were due to water breaking but not progressing in labor, but I would have chosen a regular delivery if able. hang in there!

Answer 7

Completly normal, it could be braxton hicks, or early labor which varys with every pregnancy. some women are in early labor for days, other just a few hours. Try to get some rest, labor is hard work, and look forward to the little one you will soon have.

Answer 8

well if your not happy with your doctor even this late in your pregnancy you can still change doctors. Since your having a c-sectio i suggest you do this transition soon since your medicsl records are at the same hospital as the doctor you may want to transfer to so that he can get a good idea of your situation

Answer 9

Yes its normal its called braxton hicks contractions and its false labor it happend to me for 2 weeks before i finally went into real labor and your hormones are out of wack that's why your so emotional very normal , good luck with your new baby its the best thing in the world!

Answer 10

Dear it is so normal! I have been down that road 4 times! Try to walk, take a shower, read! Anything to get your mind off the birth! You know our midwife said have lots of sex! That will get things going! We tried it ! It worked for us! GOOD Luck! I will pray for you too! Try not to cry! The baby can hear you! Listen to some soft music!