Im a 19yo guy that has several really good friends that happen to all be girls. I find it hard for me to make friends with guys. No I am not gay if thats what you are thinking. I am a shy person to begin with just looking for some good guy friends but having trouble. Any one have any suggestions for me?
2006-08-23 15:57:25 · 7 answers · asked by joedude8888 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Do you practice any sports? That can be an avenue to meeting guys who have similar interests as you.
2006-08-23 15:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right after high school can be a tough transition. Just try making funny small talk at work and see if anyone bites. Also see if any of your girlfriends have a brother to hang out with.
2006-08-23 16:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by Incarcerated Bert 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're not gay? I had the same thing going on when I was 19. I desperately wanted a girlfriend (or so I thought...) but all I ever could manage was to be "friends" with them. It sucked.
But later, I realized I was gay. It all seemed to make sense to me after that. But it took a while for me to admit it. I didn't WANT to be gay... but after a while, I just gave into it. I'm much happier now. (I guess that's why it's called "gay"!)
But I guess to make friends with guys, do guy things. Sports, fishing, go to the track, go-go bars (BADA BING!), etc.
Love, Jack.
2006-08-23 16:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Consider that you stop trying to make friends and ask your self what you like to do. Then proceed to enjoy the activity, smile often, and prepared for some light conversation. Try not be needy or clingy. Have fun!
2006-08-23 16:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by Sociallyinquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a sports team...you'll make lots of friends and no one will think your gay, Good luck
2006-08-23 16:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by carmel c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know I have neither male nor female friends it really doesn't bother me
2006-08-23 15:59:40 · answer #6 · answered by Ynot me 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen,you are what you are-embrace it.GO Out.Find yourself a zesty little fruitcake(I like the sparkly ones)and munch.
2006-08-23 21:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋