okay me and my boyfriend havebeen going out for 8 months and i really love him... he is starting highschool before me lke a year before and i'm scared that he is gonna see another girl and start like her he says he loves me and he wont cheat on me and not to worry but how can i not worry i'm scared help
2006-08-23 15:56:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it's only natural that you worry but don't let it ruin it for you. i know the feeling believe me, my gf just started college and i've been there and if you really mean a lot to him then he won't screw up. be happy and optimistic, trust him. there is really no point in worrying with nothing has happen, right? if nothing bad has happen why would you bother thinking about it, enjoy everything and be happy that you're together. good luck!
2006-08-23 16:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by Win 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
High School huh? You guys sound pretty young. I think you two should sit down and have a serious talk about your near future. You have a LONG way to go and there is a possibility that your childhood sweetheart will not be your husband/wife. You have to let him go, if you were meant to be together, you will meet again. Don't stress your young self out worrying if he's cheating on you or not - it's not healthy.
2006-08-23 23:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by nymischief 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im not saying dont worry but hey if he really loves you like he says then he wont do anything wrong. I have learn threw out my life that you will have these fears of others girls liking or possibly trying to get with your man but you just ahve to have trust and believe and if he choose to go let him go you will be okay trust me e-mail me every day to let me know how this turns out
2006-08-23 23:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there really isn't anythign you can do not to worry, you just have to trust him and him reasuring you is a great plus.. i went threw the same thing but my boyfriend was starting collage and also had a job and i was afraid i wasn't gonna be able to see him as much and he would find someone else. but it worked out. we have no been together over 2 and 1/2 years now.
if you need any one to just talk to you can email me at taytayjomar89@yahoo.com
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like i said i know what you are goin threw.
2006-08-23 23:00:41 · answer #4 · answered by taytayjomar 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its a normal transaction on this alot go through it but I think if ya just let things play out youll see its the play of your life it runs its own course we all have ours and to sit back isnt really what I'm sayin but run w/ it, try to relax so ya dont drive him away and go crazy at the same time and if it works out great if not then he wasnt the true and you'll find when least expect it,
2006-08-23 23:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do but to trust his word.
If he see's another girl and leaves you for her then you'll know he wasn't worth it.
Just believe in his word and hopefully he means what he is saying.
If not, and he does cheat, just come to a realization that the two of you weren't meant, that's all you can do.
2006-08-23 22:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi i would trust him. if he knows your insecure about the relationship he would might drop you as it is thinking you don't trust him. you 2 love eachother then let it rest and everything will be ok. talk to him a bit how you feel. he should know and see what he says to you.
tasha
2006-08-23 23:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by tash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur hot and his hight he wont mess with another girl but if u keep messin with him like telling him what to do example to not talk to other girls he'll think u tryin to get in his busines so just stay calm if he loves ya if u think he loves u hell stay together
ps. ur too young to be in love sry kid
but u two arnt going to be together so just get another guy thats in ur grade then if u 2 wanna hook back up wen ur in same grades hook up together.
2006-08-23 23:01:51 · answer #8 · answered by Dream catcher 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U must have confident in this relationship. If you don this relationship is very hard to go on.
2006-08-23 23:07:16 · answer #9 · answered by Phoebe C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called trust babydoll.... the more you freak out and smother him...the more likely your prediction will come true. Suck it up for a while...men like confidence..show him you are confident enough with your self and relationship. He may just surprise you...
2006-08-23 23:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by shasta 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋