ok so i have this boyfriend and we love each other dearly and misseach oter so much well . it's been 1 year and just turned 2months so a year and 2 months togehther and i can't really see him as much as i used to i have been busy and there are times where i am stuck in the house well my boyfreind wrote to me a letter saying how much he misses and loves me but he says things are over because we don't see each other that much and i noticed after he wrote this we haven't spoken to me whether it be online on messanger i feel the way to talk to him to get this sraight is to either call him or ring his bell go to his house and talk to him well i miss and love him dearly i don't want this realationship to end please help:*(
2006-08-23 15:54:21 · 7 answers · asked by mnd71705 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if he wrote you a letter instead of talking to you in person he is a loser, forget about him and find a real man not a little wussy boy.
2006-08-23 15:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by Tim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to convince him that thigns will change and in honestly if you want things to work you need to change them. I'd go to him immediately and appologise that you haven't been there. Explain your situation and negotiate with him a way that he can get what he needs from the relationship. Ask him if it's just time that he needs or more intimacy or more or a specific activity. Show him that he means a great deal to you if he does.
2006-08-23 23:05:10 · answer #2 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't want to hear this....you need do move on. The reason is this...love does not a relationship make. Perhaps 50 years from now you two will be together, but now is obviously not the time. Sometimes it takes guys a very long time to get their head on straight,.
2006-08-23 22:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive recently had a long distance relationship with my gf for 1 year and about 10 months. we broke up because of the distance and my big mistake was to talk to her on the phone or messenger. i suggest you two talk about it in person together on how you both feel. i'm not saying anything bad will happen. nothing is ever certain. just talk to him but in person. good luck!
2006-08-23 23:01:04 · answer #4 · answered by Win 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is only interested in you for sex, he is having sex outside now, if you get ignored, that is why, he has action elswhere and will pay attention to you only when he needs sex from you, you are his contact as a last resort when all the other girls are not available. he is not that into you anymore, so he ignores you, all that sweet talk is just so you hang on long enough for him to use you until he can't get away with it anymore, so you are just being used like an old car.
2006-08-23 23:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you don't know the answer to this question, I'm going to assume that you're young. So, I can't give you the answer.
2006-08-23 22:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him directly and find out his feelings. If you love him, try and work it out.
2006-08-23 22:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋