2006-08-23 15:48:22 · 23 answers · asked by Cardinal64 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah the spark will be the shock from being served divorce papers.
2006-08-23 15:50:46 · answer #1 · answered by pamspraises 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
An extramarital affair, will not give your marriage a spark, but it will kill any spark you think you might have left. I dont' know how old you are, but if you do this then you are breaking Gods commandment. " Thou Shalt Not Commit Adultery " Why would you want to betray your marriage partner, that you took marriage vows to protect from all sin? Too routine. Well If you commit Adultery, then there will be NO routine. It will be all gone and for what ? A man/woman who possible don't give a rats *** for you, nor respect that your married ? If you have children, don't make yourself a dirty person and develope a bad story that they will hear about and learn to dislike you.
2006-08-23 15:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What K.M. doesn't seem to know that yeah, maybe feeling "fresher" sounds good. It brings other problems. He might never know, but you will. Now you not only have a boring marriage, but now its a dishonest marriage. You will feel guilty, he might find out, you might get pregnant, get an std, or completely ruin your marriage. Marriage is a sacred thing between you and him, and for some like me, God. Guilt can make you and your marriage very unhealthy. Can make you physically ill. Talk to him, that's what hes there for. Find something for the both of you to do that's different. BRAKE THE ROUTINE WITH HIM ONLY!! You are both one, don't bring someone else into the equation. It doesn't say "till death do us part, except when things get boring then go get your jollies on and come back when your satisfied!" It will never add spark to your marriage, especially when its one sided.
2006-08-23 16:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't think so it would just hurt your spouse and you will have to live with the affair for the rest of your life. It is not just your wife/husband in the relationship it is you as well. You should try to add a spark to your relationship as well. There are so many things you can do to get that spark back in your life. There is no reason for someone having an affair. Go to an adult store buy some new things. Wear something sexy for your spouse. Have fun outdoors try new things.
2006-08-23 15:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can add spark to your marriage. It helps you put all the little things that bother you in your marriage away. They don't bother you anymore because you don't concentrate on petty things. You are happy all the way around. It makes you feel fresh and new again and if your a female it makes you feel a little more independent. When you come home you are happy to see your spouse because their is the "home" feeling. Their is nothing wrong with it at all, just don't get caught up and have your priorities right from the get-go. If it's going to be a fling make it a fling, with the right person of coarse! It's probally best they are looking for the same thing you are.
2006-08-23 16:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by k.m. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, it'll add spark alright. And it'll be the spark that ignites the explosion. And then when it all comes crashing down around you, you'll wonder if the routine was such a bad thing after all.
Honey, if it's dull, be creative, mix it up a bit. It takes two ya know.
2006-08-23 15:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there's a lot other things you can do to for that. I think an affair would just make things worse, even end your marriage. Trying looking up information on line...there's plenty of ideas out there to make a marriage as hot as before. Good luck and think things through.
2006-08-23 15:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by Melisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll add spark alright...like a stick of dynamite!! Extramarital affairs are never a good thing.
2006-08-23 15:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by Super-Mom9 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ha, if you believe that buddy, I have swamp land in Florida I can sell you at a reasonable rate.
Affairs are only exciting for the one having them. No woman wants to be thought of as not good enough, and believe me-having affairs sends just THAT message.
Be prepared to pay big time in the divorce settlement!
2006-08-23 15:51:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not solve a problem in a marriage by just adding someone else to the mix.
Talk to your spouse, go on a sexual intimacy retreat, dress up, get a book on tantra sex, have sex in exciting new places, pretend to be other people, talk and become intimate again without the expectation of sex.
Spice up your personal life with dance lessons or taking up sky diving, invite your spouse or do something just for yourself so you feel more personally fufilled.
2006-08-23 15:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by peacein 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋