Hey everyone. My boyfriend and I are totally happy, but I am just afraid that he will pressure me into sex. He said he wasn't ready either, but I don't know. Please, guys only answer my question, is it true that you only want sex?
2006-08-23 15:32:12 · 12 answers · asked by M. L. B! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Like Zut said, there are a few good guys left. (like me ). we dont all want sex. It depends id the guy is matured enough. If hes smart and loving, he'll do whatever it takes to make sure you're happy. If he is, he will want, rather than sex, only to be with you. That is if hes a good person and really loves you. So, the answer is both yes and no. Most af guys want only sex, but some of us aren't like that. Try to find someone like that. I prmise you that you will be happy eith him for the rest of your life. Good luck
2006-08-23 15:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is telling you that he is not ready then trust him. I really admire the both of you. It can be hard on a relationship when there is no sex involved. He may want it and you don't. When a man is willing to wait for you, take it in and enjoy that feeling, because you are doing something right. When he says he is not ready, it is because your not ready and he respecting your wishes. He wants you to feel completely comfortable. Trust him and know that this type of guy is rare to find. If a man really wants it, then he will do whatever he can to get it. This one chooses to wait for you.
2006-08-23 15:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by Dr.Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you get old a relationship is not complete without sex, even though sex is not the most important thing to a relationship it is a part of it. Me personally, I want the whole ball of wax when I find the right person. So my answer would be no sex is not the only thing we want.
2006-08-23 15:36:31 · answer #3 · answered by tman137 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some guys that may be true, and some there may not. You just have to understand your guys feelings, and if he tries to pressure you into sex, tell him exactly how you feel. Good Luck
2006-08-23 15:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I am not a guy....but I have lots of relationships with them (I'm 49 years old), and yes, pretty much that is all they want. If they tell you otherwise, they are only playing to your romantic side. It doesn't mean they are bad...just means that is how they are wired. Just make sure that the guy you give yourself to is worthy of you.
2006-08-23 15:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is one of the many in gradients in a relationship. It may or may not be true depending upon the priorities.
2006-08-23 16:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by No Saint 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not...we want the same things in a relationship that girls want. Caring, devotion, commitment....but we want sex to be a part of it, too.
2006-08-23 15:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time... unless you got one of the few good guys left
2006-08-23 15:34:45 · answer #8 · answered by DeAd DiScO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no trust me girl
you r walkin 2 da bad path of lyf
2006-08-23 15:34:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until they are 30 or so, yep that's pretty much it,
2006-08-23 15:49:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋