Well, latley ive been feeling a little left out/offended by the way my friends are treating me. 4 e/x i was at my friend alyssas house with 2 other friends- shanti and bree. i had to stop at my house so i told bree to tell everyone else not to go to brees without me and that ill be right back. so then when i went down there they were gone so i called there cell and told me to meet them at brees so i did. when i got there they were gon e so i went to nock on the door but some kid came down and said they left so i called again and alyssas like oh we forgot about u! i was so hurt. then for the rest of the evening they were acting really snotty and when i tried talking to them about it they got all fussy and kep yelling. what do i do!
2006-08-23 15:26:53 · 5 answers · asked by xlittle_lady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Girls are finicky...sometimes, being mean to someone, or purposefully leaving someone else, makes other people feel better about themselves. It is like stepping on someone else in order to get higher up. It is immature, but it is a part of growing up.
My best advice is to just forget about it. Don't pout about it, stress about it or worry about it....just relax, next time you see those girls, just find something fun and exciting to talk about and don't dwell on the "what happened the other day....". Make LESS of what happened instead of making more of it. The more you give them a big reaction, the more likely it is that they will make a game of it next time.
Say something simple like "hey, I ended up missing you guys the other day...." and then follow up with something totally different like "what's going on today"....or "guess what my brother did yesterday"....change the subject yourself, as if missing them was no big deal to you, and then all the "drama" will be out of the situation.
Good luck!
2006-08-23 15:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by teachinmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either bring the problem to the surface and make them talk about
it, or stay away from them for awhile. It could be they are angry
at you for some unknown reason. You know we can sometimes
say something without even realizing it, or do something to offend without knowing it. It is best to know why they are acting
this way.
2006-08-23 22:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, don't listen to the ppl here taht are telling you to make better friends. They are so stupid. I wouldn't leave my friends just for that insadent. here's what you do:
just pretend it didn't happen for a while and when your friends forget about it and stop being all snooty to you, mention what happened that day. Their respnce will probably be:
We were just messing with you! that was a long time ago don't get mad over it again! come on, we werw just kidding, can't you take a joke??!
Then just say: ok, ok. fine. let's just put it behind us. just don't ditch me ever again, ok?
Their response: ok, fine!
2006-08-24 02:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by Leni ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make some real friends!!! These people are not your friends.
2006-08-23 22:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by dollarsmillie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find some new friends
2006-08-23 22:49:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋