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2006-08-23 15:07:41 · 30 answers · asked by Kelly D 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
yes, i realized it is normal because i thought i was a awful person i was always thinking and still do get a little jealous of lady's just get pregnant like nothing and have four or five kids and i just wish for one at this point in my life some women don't even don't take of the kids how they should and it depress me so much when i see all my family having kids and my has stopped i don't go to baby showers or birthday parties any more because i feel like i don't have anything in common with them and feel left out yes i know how that feels like your heart is torn apart i have got better but i do sometimes cry myself to sleep because i wish to conceive one day and become a mother,,,,,,,,,but i am still going to keep trying until i can't anymore or maybe in the future adopt i am 34 yrs and i get scared but i still have Hope to one day to be blessed so don't give up and keep trying good luck
2006-08-23 17:13:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be jealous, you can be envious. If you are having trouble conceiving, ask your physician if your pelvis is tilted. Try laying on a pillow, or you try being on top. These all worked for me. You can actually do exercises to help with this problem. Ask your physician for help. If the physician tells you all tests are normal, and there is no reason for the delay in conceiving, then relax and it will happen eventually when the time is right. I truly believe everything happens for a reason. Sometimes, unfortunately we ask for something, and the answer is no. I'd like to think when this happens, it was just not meant to be, and more often than not it all works out for the best in the end. We've all heard the saying...when one door shuts another one opens.
2006-08-23 22:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's totally normal.
When we were going through IVF, just hearing on the news that some celebrity was pregnant would leave my wife in tears.
We helped run a local support group for couples having fertility treatment and we had a rule that when a member did get pregnant, at 4 months we had a little celebration for them and then they couldn't come back (at least until they started trying for a second), because so many of the other members felt uncomfortable around pregnant women especially.
2006-08-24 07:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by gvih2g2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very normal and something that I went through myself. It took two and a half years to conceive my son and 11 years to finally conceive my daughter with 5 miscarriages in between and I got to the point that I didn't even go to baby showers or call people when they were pregnant. Give yourself a break!
2006-08-23 22:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal. I had 3 miscarriages before finally having my son and he almost died because he was almost 3 months early. It seemed like after every miscarriage that I would hear on the news about someone killing their baby by dumping them in the garbage or on the side of the road. It made me so angry. I am trying really hard right now too to be happy for some friends of mine that are pregnant because I recently lost a baby girl at 21 weeks pregnant due to Incompetant Cervix.
2006-08-23 22:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also have had no luck getting pregnant and am also jealous of all the pregnant women out there. It is so hard going to baby showers and getting pictures of all the new babies. I quit my job in childcare because it was so hard being around young children and not being able to conceive myself. I wish you the best of luck and hopefully one day a miracle will happen for you.
2006-08-23 23:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by Kimberly S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's human nature. I was trying to conceive for 8 months and one day my cousin told me that she was pregnant because of an accident whilst on the pill. I am never jealous of anybody, but I think I turned green!! But the happy ending to this story is that a week later i did a test and it was positive. We both have beautiful bouncing baby boys!
2006-08-24 03:31:31 · answer #7 · answered by chelle0980 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It is normal. I was jealous of my sister when she told me she was pregnant. She is now 3 months gone and I'm now really happy for her. Myself .. me and my partner have been trying over a year thats why I was upset cause I was jealous that she could have a baby and I can't even be a women and have a period. Now I'm excited for her but get really annoyed that all my family can talk about is babies, babies, babies.
2006-08-24 09:20:30 · answer #8 · answered by Elizabeth C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, at least I hope so. If not it just makes me a spiteful cow. Soemtimes I'm in town and see them everywhere, feels like they're following me around flaunting their pregnancies. What's worse all my friends seem to be getting pregnant right now, some are happy and others not so pleased. I'm there with a smile on my face saying "congratulations" and I honestly mean it, but inside I'm also desparately envious. I've wished it was me instead, even though I know it doesn't work like that.
Good luck with ttc, we willl get there, one day....
2006-08-24 16:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by Cazza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its crazy how every junkie or whore who dosent want or need kids has 5 but women who would make great mothers have problems conceiving and go through miscarriage after miscarriage while other women have abortions not realizing the gift of a child i have been through what you are going through and keep your head up
2006-08-23 22:16:35 · answer #10 · answered by reno_tony_casino 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋