I used to be such a "G" for lack of a better word. But seriously, I used to be real smooth-NOT a playa, but naturally at ease when it came to talking to other people. But now it seems when I'm attracted to a girl, I can't talk to her. I just let a really nice girl slip through my fingers because I never got up the courage to talk to her. Now there's another girl I like, and because I waited to talk to her, she's already seeing somebody else here at school. How can I overcome this fear? It's so hard for me to speak up, unless I'm toasted, lol....
But seriously, thoughts? Ideas? Advice?
2006-08-23 14:57:25 · 3 answers · asked by Agent Double EL 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just do it, go for it, you will never know unless you just talk to her. What could happen, she will say no, so what, at least you know that instead of "oh, I wonder what could of been???"
2006-08-23 15:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude.
u gotta be cool
u been a playa before so u already know how things work.
though it appears to b hard 4 u, remember, it is just the same thing. u just have to talkto her just like anybody. 1st, u try to talk to her as anybody, then u can go to the specialty. so if u start by the specialty, u can get busted out. but actually, if u start as normally.
2006-08-23 15:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to be shy around someone..it can be really flattering...just don't let it be misinterpreted as disinterest.
2006-08-23 16:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋