2006-08-23 14:51:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
becuase they come to a certain point when everything is dark around them and it feels as though life is treating them unfairly....or in other words....like "crap"....
2006-08-23 14:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by hannahrosey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People say their lives are crap because they simply have a negative outlook. Bad things happen to good people and some more than others. But if a person would just evaluate their life, maybe they'd see it really isn't all that bad.
Some people spend all their time, "wishing" they had what others have. They see other people's lives as so much better than theirs. However, they are not on the inside seeing reality. Instead of concentrating on all of the bad issues that life is dealing them, they should really stop and think seriously about their life. Do inventory. Realize all of the wonderful things in one's life.
And maybe take a few positive thinking courses.
2006-08-23 23:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by Dorie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people really do have a lot of problems. One thing kind of leads to another... and they realize that they have made all the wrong decisions, and have caused all this to happen to themselves.
Other people have very high expectations. They want everything to be just the way they imagine it, and yet their imaginations are of some totally impossible situation, that nobody could achieve that. They shrink away from mediocre happiness because that's never going to be good enough for them.
And then, there are those who are just chronic complainers. They are very spoiled and have always had things done for them. When they find out that they have to work at their life to be successful, they whine and cry, hoping somebody will step in and do things for them like their mommies always did.
You just need to try & figure out which it is, when you hear people talk like that. And then tell them what they need to do about it. Sometimes, they are just playing a game called "you can't make me happy." When you make a suggestion, they always have at least one reason why that won't work.
If that's what they're doing.... I suggest you just tell them to talk to you later, when they feel like making more effort to help themselves.
2006-08-23 21:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are unhappy with their lives. Some people don't realize how lucky they really are. Not until a life threatening disease or an accident happens to them or someone that they love. I think that myself at times. But what I realize the most what makes my life so unique and great is that I have 3 beautiful daughters that I would hate to miss out on their lives. I love them deeply. They are my world. If anything ever happened to them than my world would come crashing down. On top of it, I have met a truly great guy, who is very understanding and great to our kids. With out all of that I'd truly say I have a crappy life. But sometimes its just their self image, some people look down on themselves or are ashamed that they don't know what to do, its a really bad case of DEPRESSION. I've had that as well. Thought about suicide alot, but now I believe that if I was to kill myself or if anything happened to me, my kids wouldn't have a mother...See my mom has passed away when I was 10, and I never knew what it was like. But now, I have learned what its like to be a mother and how much joy I have missed with my mother...and I am grateful my kids have me as their mother.
2006-08-23 21:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by missbehave252002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For people who think that way just tell them that life that is what we do every day" Last time I checked the manual !"= Bible
& life is what happens while they are out making other PLANS !!
2006-08-23 21:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by howyozzzdoin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some people are exposed to great pain (physical or mental) and their outlook on life is then through the lens of that pain.
2006-08-23 21:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by buK00 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are conformists whom probably made poor choices or people who haven't done enough to make their lives better... and like to complain about evrything,instead of complaining why don't they do something? it's pretty easy ...don't like something about the life you are living ...go ahead and change it
2006-08-23 21:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by mj23 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
many different thing could have happen that is just random or is a mistake that they had litile or no contrl of or they themselves messed up their life with several decisions ......depending on what they did or didint do
2006-08-23 21:53:57 · answer #8 · answered by David Garcia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Low self esteem and not knowing how to improve it or not wanting to
2006-08-23 21:53:43 · answer #9 · answered by witchfromoz2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cant speak for no one else but my life is crap
2006-08-23 21:52:47 · answer #10 · answered by sclady62001p 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋