Im with love of my life.We are soul mates(need to meet often)but we are both busy doctors.Yet its he doesnt want to marry,i do within a year.We are together 4.5yrs(half of time we were only friends half long distance lovers).I feel certain age should be there for everything,i want to have kids(not out of wedlock).Im 24 in a month 25.Do i wait or leave?As i try to moveon he comes back into my life he cant live without me.Now again if i move on hell come back into my life,its hard he loves me i love him.But i want him to want to get married as much as i want to marry.
2006-08-23 14:45:39 · 12 answers · asked by hiscaptiveher 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
1.tell him convince him u dont want marriage
2.ask him to meet for holidays/break
3.try to get to know each other in person/date for awhile since when hes convinced its not about marriage hell want it too
4.after it talk to him seriously say within a year u want to marry if he wants the same thing since u want children soon by 26 ull have to marry that gives u both a year for engagement/marriage
2006-08-23 15:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring up the whole marriage situation with him. Ask him what he thinks about and what age does he think is a good age to marry. Maybe he will get the idea that you want to get married soon. Don't leave him because he might be planning a way to ask you to marry him and is just scared.
2006-08-23 14:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by tabatha1333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 01:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so beautyful! i want to be a doctor too!!! ^-^ but anyways... I think you should talk to him. be serious about it, tell him straight that you love him and would like to marry and what does he think. If he does, then yay!!! but if he doesn't you should decide what will happen. I think you shouldn't break-up because it sounds like you really love each other and maybe he will change his mind in the future. Anyhow, always follow your heart and have faith. =)
2006-08-23 14:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by principessa=o) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be pateint have a romantic dinner and putyour cards on the table let him know what you have plan for your future and see what direction he is heading in and if you love truly love one another then you can work it out but you put your foot down and he'll make a decision cause he knows you are not playing this time good luck sound like a good couple
2006-08-23 15:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that is pretty young to be a doctor, how did you manage that? Stop sleeping with him till you get him to marry you, that may say something about the relationship.
2006-08-23 14:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel exactly then see what he says if he doesn't want to get married find out why or hell tell him you want to get married or it is over
2006-08-23 14:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by lilblueyes8058 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the time must not be right give it awhile maybe he'll propose. or maybe you should propose to him. it's more common now for woman to do it. if he says yes make him set a date if he won't then move on.
2006-08-23 14:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by mommy_dearest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds too hectic. i'd find someone else that would better suit your needs.
2006-08-23 14:49:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain this to him.
he needs to step it up
2006-08-23 14:48:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋