We were friends for 2 years. We were the best of friends until she started talking about sex, and being with GIRLS! I really didn't want to talk about that, with her, because I just wanted us to talk about school and such. But then (I'm a girl, just to let you know) she started to like kiss me not like pecks but like the way older teens to if you know what I mean, and when I told her I don't like it she got mad and hit me several times. Then I caught her watching me go to the bathroom, and I just got rid of her!!! But then she went to the school counsuler and she said we HAVE to stick together. Now we are in middle school and we HAVE TO DO EVERY THING TOGETHER! I went so far that I self injured because of her. How do I keep her out of my life????
2006-08-23 14:27:24 · 10 answers · asked by ajmcleanrocksmysocks 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Open a six-pack of whoop-as s on her
2006-08-23 14:30:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her aside and explain to her that, at one point, you valued your friendship with her, but you can't be around her if she's going to act so freaky. Tell her you are uncomfortable with her actions and ask her nicely why she's like that. Try to be reasonable, don't just demand that she leave you alone. Tell her you feel things are too weird for you guys to be friends again. And explain why, don't just say "Get out of my face, creep." If she continues to bother you, talk to a teacher, counsuler, adult.
You injured yourself because of her? Make sure she knows that. Tell her that her constant, somewhat disturbing attention is putting you in a dangerous place. Tell her flat out that she scares you in a way you don't understand.
Make sure you're nice but firm. Seems like maybe she needs a little help, eh?
2006-08-23 21:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by Smiles Like She Means It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self-injury behavioral pattern is not consistent with posting your story for help.
Before asking here, you would have discussed this with people around you (family, other friends).
So, in all likelyhood, this is not a real scenario.
Now, if against all odds it is, seek legal protection, since this person is sexually harassing you.
:-)
2006-08-23 21:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by Andreba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling you're a pedophile. Maybe i'm wrong but that's the way this story comes off.
2006-08-23 21:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by rogue chedder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order.
2006-08-23 21:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by lees girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she is crazy about you and such tell her how you feel and stuff
2006-08-23 21:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by Bouncer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that u don't have a friend/relationship with her like that. if she don't get it then tell her to leave u alone u ain't putting up with it.
2006-08-23 21:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by Sami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell you're parents. that girl is crazy ! tell her staight up, you're not going to be her friend. put you're foot down. what kinda chick is this ?
2006-08-23 21:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by La Princesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her straight up to leave you alone.Tell her you don't like her behavior.Don't forget to tell your parents.
2006-08-23 21:32:54 · answer #9 · answered by sandy N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Murder her buddy..............
2006-08-23 21:47:56 · answer #10 · answered by Cupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋