Sistas only please! White men...?

Question

OK ladies you need to tell me whether you like white men or not, and why, and maybe why you think so few black women care to go out with white men!

(By the way, even though I see a lot more black men with white women and it reminds me how rare the reverse is, it still is great: we need to keep the black guys busy with the white ladies and free up some sistas for US!)

Clarifying:
Yes, I'm extremely physically attracted to black women. Their bodies are shaped perfectly, their smell (like even after sweating buckets at the gym) is intoxicating. And ever notice how the average black woman looks as good as the hottest white woman, only darker!
I've also found that I tend to like black women more personally; I don't know many but they all seem more real, and I hate head games in relationships. Bed games beat head games!
Maybe I do or don't like them for the right reasons, but I LIKE them. EG- I could meet a man who is perfect in every way, and never love or want him. I like women. Ya know?

Eddie 7: Yes, every time I ask a woman out, what I say is, "I am physically attracted to you..." You got me PEGGED!

Other girl: Yes I have low self confidence but I do badly with ALL women. I'm basing my observation on seeing so few OTHER couples.

And I have gone out with women of all different races, and after lots of different experiences, simply prefer black women. It doesn't mean I'll never date a white woman. It just means I like dark skin!
The thing is, now I sometimes wonder if it wouldn't be dishonest, disrespectful and imprudent of me to date a white woman if I still feel intense attraction to dark skin. I mean, whom am I trying to fool?

T: Thanx. Just the last part:

You probably red the Eddie 7 comment. As you might have guessed, my TOTAL LACK of SARCASM should be PAINFULLY OBVIOUS ;)

Answer 1

Im a black woman and personally im not so much interested in white men. Not because i think their ugly or anything i just have mostly black and hispanic people around me. If i find a good one i wont say just cause he's white im not gonna date him. The reason i think more black men date outside their race than black women is because women are more pressured to date inside their race. Men dont get as much crap as women dating outside their race.

Answer 2

I personally date all men, I have no problem with dating interracially. However, too me it's alot of pressure to date a white man because of all the looks and the insults and the racism that is going on in this country. I know that I should not let it get too me, I speak from experience.

If you really feel that strongely about black women, you should approach them and you will be shocked to see how many black women would love to date you. You do have a good point regarding all the black men. The majority of the blackmen that I know love white women, and spanish women, amd Asian women etc.. So black women need to do the same...

I love black men too, do not get me wrong however, I am not prejudice I date everyone that I am attracted too...

Answer 3

It's complicated. With people of another race, things can get misunderstood.

Say your friend says something that is totally racially insensitive and I'm offended by it but you aren't. Then I have to try to explain to you why I'm offended and why he shouldn't have said what he said and why you should at least be upset. With a minority, we are both likely to understand the feeling immediately.

That aside, I like men from all races. Often, because of subcultures I'm involved with, I'm the only black person there.

I do think you shouldn't go up to a woman and just say you are physically attracted to her. It makes her think the only thing you care about is getting her into bed. Compliment maybe, but just coming out like that isn't such a good plan.

Answer 4

I couldn't agree with you more. I think black women are beautiful; not all- but most of the ones I know. I have never approached any man, but I wouldn't turn a man away because of the color of his skin.

To answer your other question, I think it would be a trust issue that stop a lot of black women from dating outside their race. I'm not too sure. But I see a lot of those relationships around here where I live. It's pretty normal.

Answer 5

Many of my friends are open to relationships with white men. I think that many people (across racial lines) are open to relationships with folks of different races. Why limit yourself to one type of man. As long as you are looking for love and not looking specifically for a white man, I don't see the issue. As for you liking black women, ever heard the saying "The darker the berry, the sweeter the juice?" Well, as you now know, it's true!

Answer 6

I think its good that you like black women. There is a lot of interacial dating going on. It's not just you. Do what you feel, you dont need advice on it. I am black and I would date a white man without a doubt. Color dont mean a thing. Good luck.

Answer 7

Well if you love us so much you should just be bold and step to them. Any women like confidence and if you come correct to a smart sista "not a hood rat" chances are you will get a date.

I personally never dated a white guy before (only blk and latino) but if one had stepped before i was married i would have went out with him.

Answer 8

Telling women your are "physically" attracted to them only
impresses bimbos. That's why women are funny in the first place. They got too many doggs on them.
There are of course prejudiced people. But blacks and whites are getting together more and more. Blacks have a lot of anger, which they unfortunately take out on each other.
I see us getting together as a good thing. Together we can all
chill out.

Answer 9

I like white men too. But sometimes it's SOOO hard not to blame all white people for the few nimwits out there. Yes, yes, that's exactly what white racists do to us, I know.

Answer 10

Black women tend to be more cautious and suspicious than white women.