why is that men have babys and have no worries?

Question

but as soon as mariage is mentioned they run like hell

babys can not be erased but mariage can so why are they so terified

Answer 1

casue they refuse to grow up. ther is a lil guy where i work who washes vehicles, and i knew he had a baby a week ago, so i asked him yesterda y "how does it feel to be a daddy?", and he replied "i guess okay". i said "well isnt it amazing to watch its birth", and he said "no, they cut the baby out"... well a mature man was by us and slapped the lil guy and said "you idiot, grow up... it's call a c section, and be thankful you can have kids, besides you're only 16, why am i even wasting my breath on a young punk".

truth of the matter is, once a man grows up he appreciates things such as birth and marriage... not when they are babies, and honey it takes them a LONG time to grow up.

i quit dating guys my age (23-30, i'm 23) cause they were so irresponsible and immature. now i am with a 40 year old, and i will admit, there are still times i make better decisions than him, but hell, everyone is allowed a few mistakes.

Answer 2

1. Men don't carry them, women do. There is no "attachment" during that time.
2. Those "men" can't handle or don't want responsibility.
3. Marriage is a commitment that only half may take seriously. They don't see marriage worth the effort to lose their freedom and choices.
I love my children and was glad to be there for my wife at delivery. I will say this, it is difficult for some men to remain "focused" on the emotional bonding and needs when:
a. their needs come first
b. their needs are being met and their ego looks elsewhere.
As a married man, it is a struggle to maintain the same level in the relationship when you work, come home to play with the kids, wife wants to talk, and the end of the night sex is avoided. Sometimes we wonder if we are loved anymore.

1. Does he have a stable job and work history? If not, he doesn't take anything of "duty" responsibly.
2. How was his grades in high school/college? Low grades means he's not taking much seriously.
3. What is his priorities? I love football but I sacrificed watching those games to be with my wife when we were dating. Her love was more important. If you ask to take a walk with him and he says he can't because of the football games, you will be second fiddle in most everything.

Answer 3

I really wish I knew the answer to this question.
The things I have gone threw with that make this question hit home for me.
I think that because it has something to do with the being faithful has something to do with it, to not have another women or date anyone, to have to share everything with that one person.
and the reason they have no worries about the baby thing is probably because us women at least in my situation takes care of the babies no matter what so they get out of having to do much of anything.
If the tables were turned and they had to wake in the middle of the night every night and deal with throw up and owies, and dirty diapers twenty four seven then they would never have kids to begin with, however since the women does a majority of all of this then they get the tall stick in the pile and get to do what they want, when they want. no matter what.

Answer 4

There is so much you can assume but I think it depends on each idiots thinking. I knew a man who loved everything about this woman and "said" he was going to put money away for the baby and her and that everything would end up being okay but in the end when it came closer to having the baby he skipped town and saw his baby once but never again.Why you ask if he loved the woman soo much? Only he will know, other than the obvious, that he was a jerk! Good luck, love your baby and live your life.

Answer 5

Because they can make babies and leave without having to go through an expensive and lengthy divorce with feelings. All they'd have to do is pay child support.
Also, babies are different from marriage because marriage is a lifelong commitment with you and another person and a baby to them is a new life to commit to and take care of, not a commitment with the babys mother.

Answer 6

I think it is bcuz they don't actually go thru anything physical w/the pregnancy and then once the baby gets here the worries come in. And then you have guys that just don't care bcuz they don't don't want ot be bothered with. With marriage it is on paper so it sinks in that it is really happening and this is their life.

Answer 7

A real man doesnt run from commitment. When they think making babies, they mean having sex. So if they run from the marry word, they dont want to commit. quit practicing making babies then, he only wants to play.

Answer 8

the answer is premarital sex women need to protect themselves and their unborn children by saving sex for their spouse instead of taking the risk. Personally as a man I would not give up the right to my child in any case.

Good Luck to You and God Bless!!

Answer 9

It's only the men who are immature and lazy that don't take responsibility for a wife and their children.

Answer 10

because that is how society has made it. that and girls have more of an attachment to the child beings we are the ones car ring the child and giving birth.