I got new to this school on january, i came from Miami, im in a Latin country, im latin too by the way, but im white and i dyed my hair blond, all the girls when they saw me they looked at me weird, i didnt know spanish very well, so they made fun of me, i got a friend but 3 months ago i found out shes talking **** about me with all the girls they said that i was stealing their boys, that im a *****, and all that, all the girls were against me, but i have being going to school for the pass 3 day and they are cool, about the other 3 girls is that im concern, i dont know how they are going to be this year and if the other girls are going to follow them. im thinking about changing to a bilingual school, i had depression during summer because of that. i felt like **** and i cried a lot this is my senior year, should i face them or should i leave?
2006-08-23 13:53:41 · 7 answers · asked by alexandra143m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Man thats tough. But never run from your battles stand your ground and confront them with confidence,
2006-08-23 13:57:01 · answer #1 · answered by Chris T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since this is your senior year you need to concentrate on the educational purpose of school and concentrate on getting the best grades you can get-your grades will determine your future after high school and not the girls. Don't be so concerned about the 3 girls-be yourself and don't try so hard to fit in for that's not the most important thing in life anyway. You ay its been "cool"for the past 3 days well then perhaps the other girls are seeing past the skin color and the dyed hair for eventually the newness of you will ear off and they the catty ones will find someone else. Be cool but for the most part ignore those 3-do you really need them or anyone else's approval. Perhaps its time to develop and strengthen your own individuality-away from the crowd for how else will you mature and make your own mark in the aworld. Strength comes from within and people rcognize that. Constantly wanting to please , to fit in and to always be affectd(depressed) by how other people-esp the shallow girls- is also seen as a sign of being unsure of yourself,of being weak and they will prey on you for you're considered a easy mark. No one is better than you for God made YOU in His own image and its His approval you need. As long as you're tight with Him you're OK. As far as your supposed "friend"???I'd be polite but careful-don't go down to their level and act catty. If you carry yourself with class-you're not stealing their guys or trying to are you-be honest with yourself-if you are well then don't complain and if not be bigger and better than they are and Shrug it off. Like I said this petty stuff will not do a thing for your future neither will the acceptance of such catty,shallow and 1false girls. You should be thinking on what you want to be after High school and discuss with your counselor the subjects you should be taking for its time to think about college-there are scholarships and help if money tight-your counselor can help there too.Even in another country being a woman esp in a Latin country its most important that you learn now to stand on your own 2 feet. Can also have fun-enjoy yourself but don't make these girls more important than they are. I wish you a happy life.
2006-08-23 14:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to tiff. Friends come abundent so you're likly to find some folks who'll understand you, help you keep those bad girls off your back, and hang out with you, but be honest. Don't give up so easily, even if the whole school seems to be against you. Someone is bound to believe your case. My motto is "Everything always works out sometime, because it can't keep you down forever." I hope this helps you.
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2006-08-23 14:14:02 · answer #3 · answered by theoriginalelwood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face them, Dont take there ****, Stand up and be a man, It sound like you might be one of those people that allways look at the ground and never at people, this is a concern, Keep your head up. and if they give you problem, Tell the strate up, I dont care what you think of me. and you can add an insult like " Some day You will be Pumping my gas or making my food! " you can make your own. I dont know what you look like, I would say you can try to dress like them, act like them ext... but some times that wonte even work
2006-08-23 14:03:48 · answer #4 · answered by Adam D. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't leave because, that means they got the best of you, that's what they want you to do. Just stick your head up high like you just don't care. Don't worry about what other's think of you. I could care less what people think of me. But I have people that actually likes me. Make a good impression it really helps. Act like no one can bother you. There getting the best of you don't let them.
2006-08-23 14:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FACE IT and you will be a stronger person.
Children are sometimes very tactless, take it with a pinch of salt and when you grow up, you will laugh.
Don't be upset because we hope you will manage it. Take care.
2006-08-24 02:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should face them you should never run from your problems you will make other friends you dont neeed to be friends with thows girls
2006-08-23 13:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by tiff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋