My ex-girlfriend left me about 4 months ago.She was a stripper and she just one day disappeared.I've heard from her a couple of times.I had put a missing person report on her,because i had no idea where she was at.I received a call from a detective yesterday saying that they were closing the case because she was in custody of police and she was no longer missing because they know where she's at.I'm very temped to call her mother and ask her what's going on,but i'm a little nervous because her and her mother doesn't really get along.I've moved on with my life,but i still receive hospital bills for my ex and other mail for her.I'm still a little concern about my ex and i would like to know what's going on with her right now.Is it a good idea to call her mother even though her mother have had problems out of her for years and kinda washed her hands of her daughter.I myself haven't talked with her mother in about 2 months.What should i do?
2006-08-23 12:50:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You sound like a really caring guy; if your heart tells you to call her mom then follow your heart, but be prepared for the fall out. Her mom may or may not to receptive to you, than again she may welcome the call. Stay positive, and we all need a friend like you in our lives. To Thine own self be true. Good luck and God Bless.
2006-08-23 12:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by BmoreBabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you that much, then call her mother and find out what happened. Sounds like you need a little closure concerning the matter. First, i'm glad you have moved on, because she does not sound like someone you need to be with anyway. I understand your concern, but at the same time, when a dog you love has bitten you and others, what do you do?
2006-08-23 12:54:24 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ex and her mother were not close, her mother may not know anything about her. I wouldn't concern her mother saying that she went missing. I guess if you need to call her mother, call her and ask if she had a forwarding address or new contact info for her daughter because you had some of her stuff.
2006-08-23 12:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by gtn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so you say thather and her mother are not close and they don't really get along? Perhaps the mom doesn't know what's going on with her. I mean, it's possible, anyways, so use that excuse! Call the mom just to "let her know" what you found out and see if she offers you any information from there! Play the games when you have to!
2006-08-23 12:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be at liberty he's out of your existence! someone who treats you want that couldn't fairly worth a at the same time as! noticeably because that his female friend acts like that! you'll discover so a lot more desirable helpful guy than that and the hot guy would not do something like that to you!
2016-11-27 01:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and call her and let her know that u have moved on right off the bat, that u r just concerned about the welfare of her daughter and herself,but beware, she may give you an earfull! Good Luck, let us know how it goes!
2006-08-23 12:53:43 · answer #6 · answered by fox69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the mother calls YOU, I would leave it alone. You are no longer responsible for her or her actions.
2006-08-23 12:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by Debbie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally I would forward her bills and mail to her mothers address, and move on with life
2006-08-23 12:54:26 · answer #8 · answered by supervfive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call...voicing your concerns with her mom would be fine...she probably would like to here from a trusting person...
2006-08-23 12:54:42 · answer #9 · answered by Ken and Wendy M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex doesn't want you to know where she is or what she is doing, so I would just leave it alone.
2006-08-23 12:53:07 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋