I got alot of really cold answers to my pain?

Answer 1

I am not sure of your question, but am going to take my best guess. You asked a question earlier and the answers were either very off the wall, cold, insensitive, etc. to a serious question.

Here's what I've seen on this site. You have folks on here that are just "playing". They don't care about the questions and they don't take them seriously. What they don't realize is that some people are here for real questions and deserve real answers and that their kind and hurtful answers do effect people, sometimes adversely. Something to think about.

I'm sorry this has happened to you. Chalk it up to inmaturity and lack of respect for themselves and others.

Answer 2

I went back to see your original question and the responses you received and I see what your saying. There was a few that actually answered it with regard to your upset...going to court for any reason is a traumatic experience and someone you care about not supporting you has had to be double so...I wonder sometimes why people (men especially) don't see our pain when they so rudely hurt our feelings...if he could not take off work or get out of a prior commitment that would be one thing...as for all the cold answers on here, so many young people don't realize that for some this is a place to come and seek a bit of solace or guidance in our disturbing lives. For some they have not married or been in a serious relationship so have nothing to really draw experience from, so they make a big joke out of others pain or despair. They are to juvenile to understand the 2 points could have been just as easily gotten in the jokes and riddles section.

Answer 3

Light healer,
One question. Is your pain what keeps you up at night?
It seems that you have been on an emotional roller coaster for some time now and nothing seems to help. Go back to when you was a child and think about how you used to get rid of the hurt and pain that you used to suffer (and at some point, still do) and you will let it go. it will take some time and some patience on both you and your family. See, sometimes we allow our childhood to dictate how we turn into adults. There is an old saying that goes, I wonder what would happen if we realized that when we grow up, we have not become our parents, but our self.
Until...

Answer 4

I'm sorry you didn't get the responses you were looking for.

I do have a suggestion for you though...
After having read a number of your previous questions, I don’t believe you are supplying enough information.

You need to add enough information about your problem/situation so people can get a proper understanding of what you are about.

Take a bit of time to work out the best wording for your question.
Add additional information to explain yourself better. You are allowed to use a certain number of characters, so make the most of them.

Once people have a proper understanding of your situation, they will be able to do more to help you.

If all you give them to work on however is a half a dozen words like you have done in this question/statement, then you are not going to get the responses you are seeking.

Good luck with everything!!!

Answer 5

Some people are naturally mean and unsuportive of others this really bothers me as well just remember look at the answers that are pro-active not the one's that are people being ignorant for 2 points
you thing that was bad you should see my question regarding my belief in animal totems they called me everthing but crazy I only had one really ok answer even though it really never answered my question to begin with none of them did.
It takes all kinds to make up this crazy world we live in dont let the less inteligent get you done
and regarding your last question if a haircut is more inportant then your mental well being - get a new man fast or at least just get rid of this one, if your not worth his time, why you should just return the favor!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 6

Sorry about the cold answers.....some people do not have a heart. Hope that whatever pain your are going through is over very soon. Hang in there....it DOES get better.

Answer 7

There's a lot of cold people on these boards. If it is not their pain, they make fun or tell you to "cut it off" if you have a problem in the area.

You're not the only one so don't feel singled out.

Answer 8

I am sorry to hear that, maybe posting that same question again will get more responses and hopefully some that will be helpful.
Wish I knew what the question was.
The nice thing about yahoo answers is you ask, you get many answers, and you get to pick the ones that help you out and ignore all the rest.
good luck

Answer 9

It can be like that, it's a shame. Try to find the diamonds in the sand if you will, it works well for myself. Most of the folk who use this medium have been very decent to myself, and some have been extraordinary! Good luck, and I pray I've not been one of the offenders upon your sorrow; if I were please forgive my taking liberty. I would never wish sorrow upon some one stricken, by my words or deeds; and I hope your darkness; whatever it may be; lifts. Take care.

Answer 10

I didn't see your question, but people on here can be really insensitive and cold. If you want a real answer you can email me and I'll do my best to answer. I won't be cold either.