im 21 and hav tried and cant - how to?
without the urge to pee
2006-08-23 12:20:34 · 6 answers · asked by estellelegros 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
The urge to pee is actually a g-spot orgasm coming on--just let it happen. You won't pee on yourself but you will release a lot of liquid but it's not pee. The other type of orgasm is clitoral. Get a vibrator, find a quiet place where you can be alone for a while and do something to help get yourself in the mood.
2006-08-23 12:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by jilldaniel_wv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pee before you try. Anyways....when you feel "in the mood" lay in bed without pants (I know, sounds weird, but it'll turn you on eventually) Begin touching yourself softly all over with two fingers. Just rub all around "down there" (around your hole, your clit, your lips) just go slow and caress yourself. Conitnue to do this until you find a spot you really feel good to touch. Continue touching this area making rhythmical motions (flicking, rubbing fast). This is the ONLY way I've been able to orgasm alone, is by "flicking/rubbing" my clit until I orgasm. if you pee before you do this and you feel it building up, lay real still and keep focusing on a fantasy you really like and turns you on. Do this until you orgasm...TRUST ME...It works....EVERYTIME. Good luck!
2006-08-23 12:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a woman, so I can only refer you on to someone who truly knows... Try checking out
http://www.babeland.com/sexinfo/howto/haveanorgasm
By the way, I'll bet that urge to pee isn't what it seems to be -- I suspect it's your body working its way up to the edge of climax. Just keep going past it, and you'll be glad you did!!! (And if you are still worried you'll pee, put a towel under your body, just in case).
2006-08-23 12:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by Eric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can have two different kinds, the ones inside where your g-spot is the other outside, the clitoral kind. usual the clitoral are easier to get, at least for more people it is. just relax and let it come on its own. if you keep worrying about it and not relaxing that wont let you get one either.
2006-08-23 12:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by l_alvarad0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explore your space...if you need to get a good porn video ...something from adam and eve productions are good...they're not sleazy...a good vibrator helps you can get them over the internet for $30 i recommend the pearl rabbit...very nice and very fast with the orgasms...relax and enjoy...
2006-08-23 12:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by edandsarahmae02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a problem you have. Your boy friend is clumsy. He needs to take his time and be more concerned with your pleasure and not his own.
2006-08-23 12:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by cpap1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋