Is it the simplest or most complex feeling one can feel?
2006-08-23 12:16:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Infatuation is complicated. Love is very simple.
When it's real love, it becomes a part of who you are, and is as natural as breathing. Except you feel much more complete. You're saturated with it. If your body is a jar, and your soul is the sand that fills the jar, then love is the liquid matrix that fills in the spaces between the dry, dusty grains of sand that you didn't even know were there...until love filled that space.
And I agree with Gabs: love is indeed a verb, not a noun. REAL love...the kind we are all hungry for...is found by doing something that makes no sense: giving it away without expecting the object of our affection to return it in kind. Some people call it karma, but it's a well recognized phenomenon that whatever you give comes back to you. Often in unexpected ways. But the catch is to give goodness/love/kindness for the sake of giving it...not because you expect something in return.
Great question. :)
2006-08-23 15:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by intuition897 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the most complex, as a result of conditioning from our past. For instance if we grew up in a violent, abusive environment, we could mistake warning signals as love and comfort zone signals. The person we are getting them could be violent and abusive, yet some part if us feels only the familiar thus creating a mis-understood comfort zone. Another complex part is the co-dependent aspect, that could lock us into something unnecessarily.
Love is the most exciting and can be the most beautiful trip we ever take, seldom is there a road and it is filled with gateways of pain, confusion, cloudiness and sometimes glory.
2006-08-23 19:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by Michael B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The simplest feeling we have is the feeling of physical being. The most complicated is based on the person. To some, sadness is most confusing. To others; love.
2006-08-23 19:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotional feelings are neither complex nor simple in that sense for those words. Are we not a funny species; treating words as if they were the reality for which they are to represent, to symbolize, describe, logicate.... is not the life itself for this self. Love is the evolution for human mind in which it is either selected for extinction, becomes an intermittent or intervaling spiritual phenomena or, thirdly, wins the struggle through philosophical superiority and becomes ego ideal self. It is prudent at this point to suggest the failing of love in self is not shame but horror.
2006-08-23 22:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by Psyengine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for those who feel it is the simplest and the most wonderfull feeling ever...
for those who dont true love is a fiction fairy talle who for them is inposible and complex...untill they meet her at least !!!
2006-08-23 19:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both
2006-08-23 19:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by decimus maximus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is an action--not a feeling
2006-08-23 19:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of the above.
Eros
Philos
Agape
2006-08-23 19:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by JeyJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋