i know hes cheating and i am lonely what to do.?
2006-08-23 12:05:07 · 30 answers · asked by gina b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
y stay if hes cheating?
2006-08-23 12:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by Danny C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know he's cheating? How? DO you have solid proof? So maybe you should cheat, if he is? Where would that put you? In the same mud as him...if he is cheating. If he is cheating, don't get "revenge" because the end result of cheating is like a slow hangover...something you never forget. Be the classy lady you are and if he is, then you are rightful to leave. There are a lot of men out there who would bed you but that will leave you nothing but depressed. Keep on the high road and don't let anyone let you down!
2006-08-23 19:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by Joe S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is cheating, and you know it, why are you still there????? Confront him. Ask him "Is this marriage crowded?" If you have proof, show it to him. Then quietly, and deliciously tell him that you no longer wish to be his wife, and file.
When you have your own place -- either the house by settlement, or an appartment by settlement, and you wish to end your loneliness, find yourself a nice guy..... if you are too fat, loose it, get yourself some really great outfits, get your hair restyled by the best. If you don't have one hell of a killer smile, see the best cosmetic dentist in your area. Have some great photos taken, and put up a profile on Yahoo Personals, and Match.com. There are lots of guys who would love to meet you, but they won't ever, if the cover is shabby.
2006-08-23 19:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he's cheating then leave or stay and stop whinning......... the choice is yours, are you going to value yourself or some man? Life is to short to give yours to someone who doesn't care about the way you feel. Been there, did that and the only thing that I regret is not leaving sooner...... I waisted a lot of time with a cheater........ or you can wait until he decides to leave you and not come home from one of those trips..... the choice is yours..............You could always go full time at your job.........and pretend it's not happening........
2006-08-23 19:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by SweetT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you "know" he is cheating? Has he told you, or do you have proof? If so leave him, no one deserves living with someone who is willing to treat their significant other like that. If you just suspect him of cheating (and still want your marriage to work) then tell him you need him around more and that you need his job to stop getting in the way of your marriage. If his work is more important to him then you are then try counseling or leave him. Life is to short to be miserable. Good luck with your decisions.
2006-08-23 19:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by scottie2h2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How badly do you still want him? How badly do you still need him? It seem to me that you could support yourself by working full time. From what you have said, it seems that it may not be worth it to hang on. Only you can answer that. (Is there a chance that he gets on the computer and get into your profile and see your question or do you care.) Good luck.
2006-08-23 19:27:33 · answer #6 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know for sure he is cheating, you should do something about it. Get the facts. Confront him. Guage his reaction and take action accordingly. There is no reason to stay indefinitely lonely.
2006-08-23 19:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catch him cheating and then make plans to divorce. If you already know for sure, get out now before it gets ugly. Two wrongs don't make a right. In other words, don't sink to his level. Furthermore, if you do divorce, he could use that against you.
2006-08-23 19:06:33 · answer #8 · answered by I'm alive .. still 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know for sure hes cheating? Are you bi-sexual by any chance? If so you could meet some nice women and make some friendships with benefits.
2006-08-24 00:05:21 · answer #9 · answered by adatude4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is cheating I would worry ab out your safety and if you can prove it I would then leave the adulterer
But You may want to seek counseling joint and singly and findout how to save your marriage if you love him.
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Good Luck to You and God Bless!!
2006-08-23 20:46:45 · answer #10 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go full time as a nurse and get your own place, a divorce and a new man
2006-08-23 19:26:04 · answer #11 · answered by cslynn1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋