Im a married man and happy. But everytime i go to the club or somewhere, wife is jealous if a girl knows me.?

Question

She and i never cheated at all she just gets really mean and defensive when i talk to the girl. Any ideas? She even thinks its cheating. Help!!

Answer 1

It's not all about insecurity, it's about respect. When you're with your wife I think she wants the respect that your not going to be all Mr. Gabby with these other women, pretty or butt-ugly it diverts attention away from her. You go out somewhere with HER for a reason, not to socialize with OTHER women. I know that you probably will say that it wouldn't bother you if she did the same when male friends talked to her when you guys were out, but just remember what you said. It does have a way of making full circle. If she already told you that it upsets her and you continue to do it then you have no one else to blame but yourself. Theres a way to say hello and move on! No need to converse!

Answer 2

She shouldn't consider talking cheating if it's in front of her while it's being done. Sounds as if she's extremely jealous, and if you don't give her any reason for that, then things will work themselves out. Just show her that you are only interested in her when these females are around and if they speak, introduce your wife as the love of your live. This would help build her self esteem about your consideration on her behalf.

Answer 3

Your wife has some serious issues that I suggest you sit with her and have a long talk about. She can not expect you to ignore half the human population because they are female.
Ask her if she thinks she could go on in life without ever talking to another man besides yourself and close family.

Answer 4

if ur married and stuff why are u going to a club???? i would be mad at you too it would be one of those looks that could melt glaciers followed by the silent treatment.... wives dont like to think that anyone is talking/interested in their man..its just mean if u do it cuz u shud know how bad it hurts....think of it the other way around and dont even try to say that u wudnt get jealous..u know u wud..i just think that if ur married there are certain rules u need to follow..

Answer 5

Just tell your wife that you love her. My mom was the same way. Everytime my dad would go out with his friends on a Saturday night, my mom would say go ahead and bring your new wife home to take care of the kids. My dad thought she was crazy. Another time she said go ahead and find a new wife to take care of your daughters. I just take care of the boys. But my dad always returned home to her. So, just tell her to make friends. that will curb her loneliness. My mom's only friend was my dad.

Answer 6

Sounds like she's insecure and has a low self-esteem. I don't know what would help short of sending her to a shrink. This stuff can seriously hurt a relationship, perhaps you could try counseling.

Answer 7

She sounds insecure , so just reassure her as much as you can and make sure you are paying attention to her and not the other girls even if its innocent if you neglect her she may think something is up

Answer 8

sounds like at the same time as Clinton or Carter became in workplace. My husband is the pinnacle of our domicile. Why ? it really is biblical. He would not dominate me or Rule over me,we are in submission to one yet another. yet i comprehend that God supply us each and each particular responsibilities to finish at the same time as on earth. each from time to time I easily have the superb answer,yet i note of his position in this marriage. we've mutual note of for another's opinion.

Answer 9

I have the same situation , there is no way she would change her position , mine did not , so your hapiness will end sooner or later , like mine , I m still married , we went to counceling and It did not work , so my friend , be happy yourself

Answer 10

She sounds totally insecure. That may be a red flag....be careful!