I meat this friend, we knew each other for a few years. I liked her, I still do, I think she liked me too, I used to help her with her homework at school but we lost contact when we changed schools in the same city, I didn't have the nerve to ask her out then, but now I did. I made compliments, I made her laugh, she asked me if I had a girlfriend, I said no. I asked her if she had a boyfriend she said she did but had some problems in their relationship. I asked her out to talk about good times and what went on in the last years, she said OK, we had much in common. I waited for an hour and a half but the worst happened and didn't show up. What went wrong? was it my fault? what should I do if we will see each other again?
2006-08-23 11:45:40 · 12 answers · asked by Faust 5 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
You were stood up. Who knows why? Who cares why? Get over it. Move on. If you see her again, ignore her. She apparently didn't want to have anything to do with you for whatever reason.
2006-08-23 11:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might have forgotten. I do that all the time. Maybe she came a day early and you weren't there first. Maybe she was struck by a bus and is in a coma this very minute fighting for her life and is tormented by the realization she won't be there for you. Did you ever think about how much a bummer it is to be hit by a bus on a hot day in August? Be a guy and call her and say your sorry she was hit by a bus and that you hope she is feeling better. At least then you will KNOW more than you do now.
2006-08-23 19:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just say sorry we missed each other,would you like to try to get together again....and next time pick her up at her place...and no it was not your fault,she most likely should not have accepted the date having a boyfriend and all....she chickened out
2006-08-23 18:54:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would first find out why she stood you up. Then realize that she has moved on and has a boyfriend. Alot of guys don't want their girls to socialize with another single male unless he's gay and safe.
I wouldn't blame yourself, but take the hint and move on too.
2006-08-23 20:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww... :'(
Maybe something happened and she couldn't make it? You should call to find out. That seems like the only solution. It's not your fault and it's hard to tell what wrong, but it's definitely not your fault!
2006-08-23 18:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by J13891 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what might of happened is she had time to think about it and deiced she didn't want to take the chance of loosing what she has. And also didn't want to lead you on. If I'm right she made the best move. sorry
2006-08-26 07:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people change their mind to give you break so there must be some lesson behind sit down in the meditation and answer will come
2006-08-23 21:24:24 · answer #7 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing went wrong. Don't take it personally. You say hi and let her explain if she wants...if she doesn't mention it, you don't either...then say bye, nice seeing you again.
2006-08-27 10:08:36 · answer #8 · answered by clarissa_castsaspell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but maybe she just wasn't interested, and she didn't want to hurt your feelings
2006-08-23 18:56:37 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her "what happened" while you're asking this to yourself.
if you stop asking this to yourself, and you'll eventually meet again, you can start all over again, or you can resume your question if you still have it.
2006-08-23 18:52:29 · answer #10 · answered by marumaar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋