i a jr. in high school and in sohp. year i went out with another soph. he was really pushy and aggressive so I broke up with him. then he went out with my best friend. so I was really mad at my friend and I wrote her a note and some how the boy read it. so then they broke up. and now this year he is telling people we want to kill him, we hate him, we do witchcraft to put spells on him. (none is true) every time he sees me he calls me a B or yells out "she hates me". and its just really annoying. WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO TO MAKE HIM STOP? he is messing up my good name like I have never done anything to be called a B I am a nice person. please help!
2006-08-23 11:19:42 · 25 answers · asked by dancer4lifeJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he does need to be put under a real spell.. or he just needs a new girlfriend //
2006-08-23 11:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by jack jack 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know this is totally going to sound like a grown-up answer, but what can I say; I'm a grown-up.
If you haven't done anything to warrant being called nasty names, then nobody who matters is going to believe him when he calls you said names, and it's just going to make him look bad.
Also: surely you've considered the possibility that his "somehow" reading the note is because she showed it to him, right? If you wrote her an angry note, odds are you pissed her off for a while, and in that time she might have let him read it. I'm not saying call off the friendship or anything - heck, if it's still going after all this, it's worth hanging on to! - but I don't see why you make it sound all mysterious. =)
2006-08-23 18:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by Katie S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know a voodoo guy that has some spells that can mute him.... j/k
Hey, I don't think that your friends will think ill of you because of his immaturity. I think that you're in the right, ended up a bad relationship (he's immature, insecure and vengeful). I don't think he would have gone out with your best friend just because he fell in love with her, but more because he wanted you to be angry at him. If you didn't told your friend about it, he would have ended that relationship. If it was just time, then probably you would just let him waste his time, but it was your friends time and feelings. You're pretty OK by my book.
You can't stop him being immature, and his reactions. Try to feel unaffected by his childishness. Be steady. Good luck!
2006-08-23 18:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by Roberto 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont let it get to you, find creative ways to ignore him, this will take work but seriously dont let it get you down, something like this happened to me, and I asked my mom if she would support me changing schools and I did, funny enough I came back after a few months and he had a new found respect for me, it might require you to take risks, but try to be nice and civil, come in the oposite spirit, maybe joke back in a nice way, and blow him a kiss, dont be rude, just mess with him and seem confident. Get some guys on your side and let them hangout with you. hey there are many creative ways, just know that you know what the truth is and live it out. Dont give him the credit of having a chnace to change ur mind, you might get depressed and commit suicide because one guy doesnt get it and have to much time on his hands to mess with you. Last of all, I dont know what u believe, but know that God cares deeply about you and long for u to go to him, your confidence is in Him.
2006-08-23 18:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by felicitydarkcloudsa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I had a problem with an ex-boyfriend who also went out with my friend, who quickly became my ex-friend. While they went out, they would harrass me, just like your ex-boyfriend is doing. Eventually, I couldn't handle it anymore and I went to the dean to see if he could do anything about it. Somehow, the dean turned everything on me and made me look like the bad person. But in the end, they stopped harrassing me because they were told not to anymore. If you really can't take it anymore, just report it to whoever can take care of it in school.
2006-08-23 18:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by pandabear™ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go with the witchcraft thing.
Our brain somehow accepts the possibility of witchcraft, this is so strong people actually get sick if they think they are under a spell.
Get a friend to help you make this bozo believe you really cast a spell on him.
Or just beat him up good.
Bullies never get teased.
2006-08-23 18:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by vernes 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Tell a teacher or a guidance counselor. If you not comfortable telling them then tell your parents and have them call the school to complain. Obviously this boy is a bully and needs to be stopped.
2006-08-23 18:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by Meg 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try to ignore them. People who know u and that are truly ur friends won't even think twice about his opinions of u. He's acting so childish- he doesn't even deserve attention. People will always talk, as long as he doesn't threaten or put his hands on u, then just ignore. If he poses a threat or any sort of violence, tell an adult.
2006-08-23 18:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What a jerk. I would suggest staying away from him. And if he is messing with you or insulting you tell one of your teachers you are close with about the problem. Or spend your breaks inside. If he keeps it up someone else is going to see and he will more than likely be caught.
2006-08-23 18:24:08 · answer #9 · answered by preciousbums05 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's retarded. He's trying to make himself look better by being mean to you and your friend because he feels uncool for breaking up with two girls. Just ignore it, nobody's going to believe that you do witchcraft, that's rediculous. If you ignore him and other people ignore him then eventually he'll stop.
2006-08-23 18:23:46 · answer #10 · answered by karen 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could do a binding spell on him. ;)
Or just mock him. When he yells "She hates me" just say, "And with good reason." Or start mocking him back. He'll freak out and quit.
Here's some comebacks for you-
"She puts spells on me"- "Yes, I made you ugly and obnoxious. It's my most successful spell yet."
"She wants to kill me." "Are you scared?"
He's making himself look stupid. Not you. Don't stress it. And quit dating drama queens!
2006-08-25 19:42:07 · answer #11 · answered by kaplah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋