Every girt that I am around, either at work or at home, is either pregnant or already has kids. I have wanted kids forever now and I am feeling very left out. My husband wants to wait until we get more caught up financially and I understand that, but I still am totally depressed! Is this normal?
2006-08-23 11:17:08 · 9 answers · asked by Kim D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's completely normal-especially if you are married and ready to have kids. Waiting probably makes no sense to you and seems very unfair.
Maybe, you can make a deal with your husband about giving up some of the extras in your life so that you can have a child sooner.
2006-08-23 11:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by limendoz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it's normal. It's human nature to feel jealousy when others have something that you've always wanted. It's almost every girl's dream to have a baby. You'll get your chance one day, so cheer up!
2006-08-23 11:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by pandabear™ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is. Everyone else has their bun a'bakin' already and you want one, too. The clock is ticking! But just think...in a few months they'll all be exhausted and frazzled and you'll still be lovely and then it might not seem so bad!
2006-08-23 11:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's very normal to feel this way. But it will happen to u when it's time and when it's right.
2006-08-23 14:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 11:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not normal. You shouldn't be jealous of them having kids.
2006-08-23 11:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by just42day 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes it is quite normal !!! dont worry you will have your kids when the right time comes !!! good luck !!
2006-08-23 11:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it is. You should talk with a councilor though.
2006-08-23 11:21:15 · answer #8 · answered by bgii_2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand you
2006-08-23 11:23:36 · answer #9 · answered by me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋