I dont know what to do, my mum was on the phone and my 10yr old brother threw a pen at me and it hit me in the eye so i got angry at him and told him to f off.... anyway mum came in punched me in the arm n told me i have 2 weeks to move out. im 21, but im freaking cuz i dont know where to go or what to do!!!
2006-08-23 11:13:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i actually do work and pay her $100 per week to live there.
2006-08-23 11:34:36 · update #1
Are you sure your mother wasnt just bluffing. If you pay her $100 a week, then she is going to miss the money....Maybe it was a spur of the moment thing...You need to talk to her. Although at 21, it wouldnt hurt you to be independent. You have to move out some time....and I dont agree with your mother punching you in the arm. You do work so you do have an income...Maybe put an ad in the local newspaper asking for someone to rent a place with you....or look in the adds to see if there is share accommodation available. It is an option, while you save up for the bond for a place of your own. You can do it....lots of people do. You are an adult now and you do have what it takes to be independent...just have more faith in yourself, and start reading the newspaper for options.
2006-08-27 22:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, you will be ok. You need to hold yourself together and just think of what it is would like to do. To me, your mom went off the deep end and that one. Perhaps she said something that she really didn't mean, she had had a bad day or not just feeling up to par. However, what would you like to do?
If you are giving her $100.00 a week then you should be able to make it on your own. At 21, maybe it's time. Depending on where you live you can get additional help to help you with your bills. You will have to take it easy and start with a budget, but you could do it. Look for a simple apartment to call your own. You have a fear of being on your own as we all did or do. But there are advantages, especially being 21. Or, if you do not feel you are ready for that, then you will have to have a serious talk with your mom about your brother and you and the fact that there is such an age difference that you do not feel like playing his games. Keep your cool and think it out first.
2006-08-25 17:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by Tweek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, take a deep breath. In two weeks, I'm sure your mum will have forgotten all about today's happening. Secondly, I would apologize to my little brother and explain the dangers of throwing things at other people, and thirdly, if you don't work, I would consider getting a job and help your mum with expenses so that you both can live together in unity and peace. Also I would apologize to my mother for my behavior as well.
2006-08-23 11:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by Sandee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ths is horrible!pray to God that God can help you get another chance to live at home.talk your mom.look at the phone book for some crises hotline,look for free rooms,homless shelters if you need to,call your relative and ask if you can stay with them for a while .The best thing to do first is pary to God and belive that God will answer you.I hope that u will be okay.Love.I prayed for you.
2006-08-23 11:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my mum wouldnt kick me out. she would lecture us both.
2006-08-23 11:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by Baconbits 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋