Hello everyone. I've been seeing my boyfriend for a little over one year now, and about 5 months into our relationship I really began trusting and falling in love with him, but this new love brought about an insecurity for me.
Other women. Let me give a background.
He's a very jealous, insecure person with other men. I lost all of my guy friends, he sends his "minions" to threaten other guys who continue talking with me, but he treats me really well and he loves me very much. He gets many compliments on me, especially my looks, but it's always been this way with my boyfriends in the past and everywhere I go. Before I met him I was a model for 6 years, and while I met him I encountered a photographer who wanted to sign me with irene-marie agency. He hated this. Over time of having no friends really and just him, Ive been GREAT but i think about him lookin at other girls. he says he doesnt but i find this hard to understand + i always seem to think im not good enough b/c of this.
2006-08-23 10:46:26 · 7 answers · asked by Kristina S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like he wants you all to himself. That's all it is, and it doesn't make him a bad person. If you can't stand that about him, think about breaking up. My boyfriend is like that, but he treats me real well and loves me completely. I have no problem with it and so things are great between us.
Good luck.
2006-08-23 11:04:05 · answer #1 · answered by just42day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is what they call a GODFATHER BASTARD.
Seems like both of you have the same problem, though...or it could be that this jealousy thing has a payoff for both of you.
You said so yourself that it's a pattern...you being a magnet to guys like that. Your looks apparently isn't of benefit to you.
Don't waste your time with losers like that...because by the sound of it...it's rubbing up on you.
Have you ever read: The "7 Habits of Highly Effective People"..or "Applying the 7 Habits?" I recommend that you read these books...It's time to be proactive to make a change. Peace and God bless!
2006-08-23 18:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a way from him. He shows all the classic signs of being an abuser. He doesn't love you . It's the idea of being in a relationship with a hot chick he can controll that he loves.
2006-08-23 17:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by PasoBrio13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONEY DO THE CARREER THING AND TO THE JACK *** TO GET A LIFE IN YOUR FUTURE SOMEONE WILL FIND YOU AND BE THAT MAN YOU WANT HIM TO BE BECAUSE HE TREATS YOU WELL DOES NOT MEAN HE IS NOT VERY DISRESPECTFUL IN OTHER WAYS SOME GUYS THINK IT WILL COVER UP FOR OTHER FLAWS AND HE MAY BE GUILTY
2006-08-23 17:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by firered 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a fine mess you made of this Ollie!
can you dig a deeper pit?
your sure got a crappy life.
Get A New Life
2006-08-23 17:59:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont have trust in a relation, it will never work.
2006-08-23 17:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by Cobra 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lets see controlling, possessive, and has his own "thugs", ....UMMMM I take it you dont have LIFETIME?
This is classic DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CASE.....(FUTURE)
2006-08-23 17:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by voluptoustaureanfemale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋