My best friends boyfriend, who is also my friend, cheatet on her. Should I tell her that he did that or should I say to him that I know or should I just keep my mouth shut? Please, help me!
2006-08-23 10:45:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Depends, how close are you to her, how reliable is the information, and do you want to put yourself in the middle? You could ruin your friendship with her if your information isn't sound or just by putting yourself in the middle. Conversely, if you don't tell her it could devastate her and make her look foolish. Put yourself in her shoes and decide what you would you want. Just make sure your info is good!
2006-08-23 10:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by asmithisluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being in a relationship involves the heart which forms the base of every relationship.when you tell your friend,her heart will be broken which will be your fault.however if u dont tell her and she finds out later too you cannot tell her that u knew it but you just didnt want to itterupt,it will mean u did not show her luv.therefore as a good friend,just advice your friend and later on u tell herb the truth of which you will have to comfront the boy first so that it woulnt make u a liar
2006-08-23 11:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by princess a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is not a good boyfriend . if you don't do anything , he will continue to this . and believe me this can't be a good boyfriend for your friend . but remember not to tell her directly . do something , i mean arrange some thing that your friend get this by her own . i guess this is the best way !
2006-08-23 10:51:35 · answer #3 · answered by arash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is really your "best friend" then you would have her feelings and well being as a top priority. Since the guy is also a friend of yours, I would first go to him and let him know you know about him cheating. Give him the option of telling his GF first and let him know that if he doesn't confess to her, then you will have to tell her.
2006-08-23 11:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comfront him first and erge him to tell her and if he doesnt in due time tell her yourself. Keeping quite makes it ackward and weird for you guys. It will come out one way or the other and if it comes out and you know guilt will ovrwhealm you and you might end up losing both friends
2006-08-23 10:48:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would let him know that you know and then tell him that you will give him X many days or hours to tell her or you will. becuase u are her friends and friends look out for friends. in the end if she finds out from not him or you but finds out you knew and did not tell her. then she will be mad at you for not telling her.
2006-08-23 11:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by super mummies life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell her she will be mad.. but if you to tell. she will be able to deal with it in her own way.. by getting rid of him.. what a creep cheating on her.. she is your best friend you should be able to tell her anything..decide how good of friends that you are. and go from there. Ask yourself if your boy friend was cheating on you and she knew would you want her to tell you?
2006-08-23 10:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUCH... thats a tough one... its happened to me before too. I told her and it ruined our relationship, but we later got over it and she was thankful I told her. IF I had never told her tho, and she found out about it later... which she will find out.... She would have hated me forever because I knew and didnt speak out. So I suggest speaking out... girls will always be better friends than guys- Mostly because you can gossip to eachother and go to the bathroom together... as where guys cant- but regardless.... I say tell her.
2006-08-23 10:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your friends with both, pull the boyfriend to the side and tell him to either quit messing around or you WILL TELL YOUR BEST FRIEND!!!
Men come a dime a dozen, FRIENDSHIP IS PRICELESS!!!
2006-08-23 10:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by voluptoustaureanfemale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi...don`t tell her now....but talk to him as freind and tell him if he still love ur friend he should never cheat her again...if u felt that he wouldn`t care about ur friend and how he could hurt her...tell her everythin,cos he doesn`t deserve her love and trust.
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2006-08-23 10:57:10 · answer #10 · answered by It just me,,,,simple.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋