I am pregnant. I live with the father of my baby. I want to keep the baby, but the father does not he wants me to give it up for adoption. He is 24 years old. I love Him alot. Please give me some advice!
2006-08-23 10:44:53 · 12 answers · asked by renea v 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I am 18 years old.
2006-08-23 10:59:06 · update #1
You decide!!!
2006-08-27 02:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him, but he sure does not love you if he wants you to give the baby up. It was too easy for him to get into your pants because you believed that "I love you" crap he fed you. If he really care he would stick by you and that baby but it is apparent he does not care for you or the baby anyway...wake up and smell the roses. You are a teen sleeping with a grown man...so sad. That is your baby, you have to carry it for 9 months not him. Keep it and do the best you can and let him go. Love is a two way street and from the looks of your situation love is only going one way. If you give this baby up for adoption, the next time he knocks you up then you will be giving that baby away too. How many babies are you going to give away just because you say you love him when I can see he does not love you. Any man who really loves the female they are with are not going to advise them to give the baby away. If he did not want any kids he should have wrapped it up and you should have said no or be responsible enough to use some birth control. Ya'll do not think about these things till it is too late.
2006-08-23 17:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie,
You have everyright to keep your baby. ITS YOUR BODY,NOT HIS. I know this sounds negative but expect problems from the baby's dad if you won't do what he wants you to do.take care of your self and the baby that is growing inside of you, do not get to stressed out or cry alot because it turns to poison and is harm full to the baby. have a happy pregnancy and have a happy baby. I had the same thing happen to me and the guy left me,when I was about 5weeks along and, I went through the whole thing alone. I was scared but you know what we are very strong people us women are, Just the most thing that I can not stress to you enough is that if your man does love you, he will be responsible and stand up and be a dad, just like you will be a mom. let me say that you can not explain the joy you hold inside when you are a parent,I know that there are other worries that come along with parenting, but to be able to go through the whole pregnancy and then deliver that beautiful baby and count the little toes and little fingers and say "I DID THIS" no other joy. need a friend email me.
2006-08-23 18:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by summer_kids_3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what is best for you and the baby. As long as you can take care of yourself and your child, do what your heart tells you. I don't envy you, been there done that, gave my daughter up 14 years ago, and still hate myself for it. It was the only child I will ever have, I had to have a hystrectomy a couple years ago, and now am only 35. Try to talk to a counselor of some sort, you need to make a well educted decision. Hopefully you have some family support which I did not. I don't think a lot of your boyfriend, he is not being very supportive, you did not do this alone. Best of luck too you. you can e- mail me if you would like to.
2006-08-23 18:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by iceberg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He will say something like that because he is still scared. But when you have that child he sees him/ her he will love the baby with all his heart. Men are just harder to deal with on things like this.
2006-08-23 17:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's your baby and your body..if he really loved you and respected you he would respect your choice but you have to understand that this probably isn't easy on him either..i mean a baby is a big responsibility and he probably still hasn't adjusted to it...just give him time but if he still doesn't want it and you do...then leave him...it maybe hard but its your baby...you cant just get rid of it....
2006-08-23 18:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by xXxLil-D3viLxXx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, its your baby, are you ready for that big of comminment? Its your body, do you really want a baby? And are you married?
2006-08-23 17:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont let him make the decision for you. Do whatever you feel is right, he can always leave you so follow your heart!
2006-08-23 18:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are u and if he dosen't like it
then live
with your mom or something but u should explain to him why u want to keep it
2006-08-23 17:52:59 · answer #9 · answered by karma w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you wnt to do now thats the question you need to ask your self.
2006-08-23 17:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by carlos71800 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of your life first, i have kids i wish i would have waited
2006-08-23 17:47:21 · answer #11 · answered by dawn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋