this guy is known 2 make fun of me. he makes fun of pretty much everybody actually. well I was talkin 2 one of my friends 2day and I was laughing. (I just got braces recently and he used 2 have them but not ne more so I'm fair game 4 him 2 make fun of me in his eyes.) so he says eee! u got braces! how can I get him 2 leave me alone. It's ridiculous!
2006-08-23 10:38:30 · 4 answers · asked by 77684 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
A person who is very insecure about himself often has a strong need to put others down. He rationalizes that if he can successfully put another person down, then he must be better than the person he put down. Feeling that he is better than other people gives him a feeling of elevation (a high) that appeases his insecurities.
The way to deal with him is to recognize what he is, and respond to every insult he throws your way with the same response every time. Just smile and say "Your insecurities are showing." Say it with an upbeat tone of voice that lets him know that you are wise to him, and that you recognize his insults are just wimpish attempts to give himself some phoney feeling of superiority, and consequently you are not taking them seriously.
If he asks what "Your insecurities are showing" means, tell him you don't have the time to educate him right now, and that he can ask the school counselor, or his mother, for an explanation.
End of story, and end of insults once the counselor or his mother explains it to him. He'll stop insulting you because he won't want you to know that he is still insecure.
Try it. You'll like it. It's guaranteed to work. When he realizes you are no longer hurt by his insults because you understand his motive, he'll know he's lost his power over you and the insults will stop. But not for everyone. He'll look for other victims, so you need to spread the word. Tell all your friends how to deal with him.
2006-08-23 17:06:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you a joke:
-Doctor! I have a serious problem, I can never remember what i just said.
-When did you first notice this problem?
-What problem?
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2006-08-28 03:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your teacher, you sound like ur in school and young.... the best thing to do is tell your parrents and your teachers
2006-08-23 17:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make fun of him dis him realll good
2006-08-23 17:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by gelcoolgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋