what is considered cheating??

Question

ok heres the deal theres this guy i really really like but i am such a BIG flirt what is crossing the line or better yet is it even condisered cheating since we are not even together but i think something more may come out of it in time??

we are both single and not attached to anyone else. and we have had no contact but a hug and a kiss on the check there is major likeness from both sides and are rally getting to know each other so again what is considered cheating kisseing flertin sex with others what is the line or is there no line and no cheating is being done??? confussed because i really really like but i also like to have fun....

Answer 1

no its not cheating since ur not with him

Answer 2

I read this and I see someone who cares little about relationships and a lot about self pleasure and ego! If you haven't had intimate contact then most people would say its not cheating by intimate I mean kissing or more petting, necking, fondling sex oral or otherwise! Your own words say something "may" come out of it. You have intent! Why the need to be a flirt? My guess is low self esteem you need constant reminder your attractive. If you have a partner leave other alone! If you don't but they do leave them alone! Being a flirt makes you look like a slut is that what you want?

Answer 3

Any time you go outside of your relationship for either sexual or emotional needs that should be meet by your partner. In my relationship this includes eveything from sex with someone else to strip clubs and porn to only going to a friend or co-woker or e-mail pal for support or advice. And as far as crossing the line if your feeling guilty or you know what your doing will hurt the other person if they knew your crossing the line.

Answer 4

Sounds like you two are just dating. If you are just dating, then you two can date other people. If you are officially together, like boyfriend/girlfriend... then any act of a sexual nature (kissing, rubbing, carressing, talking dirty, sex, foreplay) is considered cheating. Also dont lead one guy on to make him think there is a chance of a relationship if in reality you really like someone else and are trying to hook up with them... thats just mean, and kharma will come back to bite ya on that one!

Answer 5

If you already have a bf and you are encouraging someone else, that is cheating. How would you feel to see your bf flirting with another girl? Being in a relationship takes a lot of maturity.

Answer 6

With regard to human relationships, couples may expect sexual monogamy of each other. If so, then cheating commonly refers to forms of infidelity, particularly adultery.

Many people consider cheating to be any violation of the mutually agreed-upon rules or boundaries of a relationship, which may or may not include sexual monogamy. For example, in polyamory, the concepts of commitment and fidelity do not hinge on sexual or emotional monogamy.

Answer 7

I can understand You So Well. I'm a natural Flirt myself. I learned to control my Flirting to certain levels, degrees, manners and persons. I'm a LEO, So I know now "How To Handle MY BIG Flirty Personality.

You're fine. You're not Cheating. You're fine just the way you are.

Answer 8

It depends on what you and your guy call cheating. If you don't consider flirting cheating, and your guy does, then there will be a problem. To make it work you'll have to sit down and talk with you bf.

Answer 9

To me crossin the line between flirtin and cheating is whether or there is sex or intended sex by either party

Answer 10

If you can do it in front of your boyfriend without anyone getting upset then it's ok. If he would be hurt or upset about the flirting and stuff then you need to stop.

Answer 11

Its only cheating if you are having intercourse with someone else who is NOT your spouse, (husband or wife). If you are not married, there is no such thing as cheating, ever.