My best friend just told my deepest darkest secret at a sleepover I wasn't invited to. I really want to stay friends. But that really hurt and she doesn't even understand how bad she hurt me.
2006-08-23 10:11:59 · 29 answers · asked by ♥live laugh love ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
make her understand how badly she hurt your feelings. maybe take a break and don't hang out w/ her as much but talk and tell her how you feel. it's up to you to forgive her, but she needs to have respect for you. tell her it's hard for you to trust her, and that it really sucks that she broke your trust. talk things out. if she's sensitive to the fact that she hurts you, you could give her another chance. if she's an asshole to you while you're telling her how you feel, she's not a good friend.
2006-08-23 10:14:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well u can still be friends with her (just not close) just find a new best bud. A real/true friend wouldn't tell a secret even if they thought it wasn't a big deal. Just watch what u tell her is all I can say. Oh and why were u not invited to the sleepover??? ... She went with out u to. She probably was trying to impress them at the sleepover by taring into u. Some friend...
2006-08-23 17:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by ♫♪♥mï®♥♫♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all a best friend would invite u to a sleepover party and secondly was she conscious? thats not a good friend at allshe shouldnt have told anyone about your deepest darkest secret you need real friends.u can talk it over with her if you still want to be her fren.we cannot make that decision for you,you need to decide wat u think is rite but if you do decide to keep her as a fren dont ever tell her your secrets
2006-08-23 17:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by Kappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand where ur coming from .....My best friend told alot of my secrets but that was in our childhood... now iam a godmother to her child. Hopefully he/she will see what he/she did and forgive u. I Forgave her even though it hurt.. Tell her it hurt you, dont hold back and tell her/him . if she dont understand walk away , i didnt say break the friendship just take a breather for a while and see what happens - good luck
2006-08-23 17:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was not right. You can stay friends if you want, but you just want be able to tell secrets to your friend. But me honesty I would very hurt and I don't know if I could be friends with that person.
2006-08-23 17:15:00 · answer #5 · answered by NaNa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She hurt you and betrayed your trust. If you feel that you need to continue the friendship confront her. Calmly tell her you are hurt (play on her emotions) and you want to trust her again but you may not be able to. If she is a true friend she will appoligize and never do it again.
2006-08-23 17:16:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You know I have friends like that 2. But that doesnt sound like a REAL friend. I know its hard to break that up that is messed up. Friends tell everything to them so they can understand not so they can gossip about it. Jellybelly123123@yahoo.com if you need anything
2006-08-23 17:17:36 · answer #7 · answered by cows go moo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have learned that a good friend is there for you always,and if that friend make something just to loose your trust don't worry she have to have a good reason, but you have to look if she is sincere with you but if she is not, even if you get hurt, you will know that she left to be your best friend since then.
2006-08-23 17:19:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE !!! they are not always there for you because sometimes they may have their own issues they have to deal with and you have to wait !! but this one does not sound like she was ever a real friend to start with .. drop her as a friend and find a better one !!
2006-08-23 17:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well friends hurt you. Sometimes you get passed it and other times you can't. So you gotta decide whether she's worth trying to move forward with or whether you need to get over her and move on without her. Your choice, no one elses. Sorry.
2006-08-23 17:16:42 · answer #10 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋