I like the idea of checking her out during "an intimate moment." Just be sure you "bust" BEFORE you tell her. Cuz, once she finds out she won't want to have sex because she won't feel "pretty." blah blah blah.
2006-08-23 14:55:24
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answered by Dialup, Avatar, Jones! 2
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first of all, what is your "male friend" doing examining your wife's breasts for cancer in the first place???
a dentist is NOT a doctor for something like that, and usually women see their own professionals regularly for physical examiniations. unless your wife is already doing this, then maybe you should encourage her to go at least for her health overall.
maybe you both can go together for support, especially if you havent been in a while. then you'll have your results and the doctor will be the one to confront and confirm whether your suspicions are true. and if it really is cancer he/she will also be able to provide assistance and answer questions concerning how to deal with it.
my mother had breast cancer while i was in college and years later after a lumpectomy she's still married and doing just fine! whatever you do, be calm, patient, supportive, and loving. don't make seeing a doctor be just about cancer but more about health and living a long life together. and even if your afraid, think about how she must feel...it's her breast and her life!
be there, be strong, and remember, it may be nothing at all...
2006-08-23 17:02:41
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answered by madi 3
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I don't think your friend should be looking for lumps on your wifes breasts! Even though he's a dentist he is no expert in that area!
You should be able to talk to your wife openly and honestly, just tell her that your concern about her health
2006-08-23 16:40:43
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answered by Anonymous
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Why is a dentist checking your wifes breasts? Anyways, sometimes they can be blocked mammory glands, so do not worry to soon, but get her checked out right away. The earlier the detection, the better the treatment.
2006-08-23 16:38:34
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answered by shewolf 3
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She needs to be checked, and right away.
Make appointments for you both for a check up, if you like, tell her it's time to kick the tires.
Do not, under any circumstances, tell her that you don't think you'll be able to look at her the same way of she looses a breast. If that's your biggest problem in the course of her possible disease, you should be lucky. You won't be able to look at her at all if she doesn't get it checked, because she could wind up dead.
2006-08-23 16:41:58
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answered by nicolemcg 5
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First of all, why is your friend the dentist, feeling your wifes boobs? Second, is this a real question? Third, I think she would want you to tell her so she could go to her doctor and get it checked out. You could save her life.
2006-08-23 16:40:11
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answered by mickeydoodlebug 2
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Can I feel her breasts as a second opinion? I hope your friend is a serious, honest guy because I would never allow my friend to do the same thing. I pray for your wife's health.
Just kidding...but really, she should have a mammogram every year for about $30 dollars.
2006-08-23 16:37:52
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answered by Sal G 4
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just tell her to go get it checked.. to get a breast exam by a real doctor..not a dentist..and to have a mammogram and possibly an ultrasound done.....
why was your friend touching your wife's breast in the first place?
oh well...maybe you guys are swingers or have an open relationship or something.. nothing wrong with that....
2006-08-23 16:38:51
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answered by myheartisjames 5
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*ponders what your **friend** was doing messing with your wife...*
I'd suggest being gentle, but straight to the point. Tell her the truth about how you feel, and how you're concerned, and how you don't want her to lose a breast, or worse, lose her life.
And for your own safety... don't mention it at the wrong time of the month.
2006-08-23 16:40:21
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answered by seraphim_pwns_u 5
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okay...teeth and breasts are totally different...why is the dentist feeling your wife's breasts?? you would hate for her to lose a breast? what about her life...
2006-08-23 16:39:53
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answered by sweetiepi 5
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