the trust is given, tossed out like yesterday's lunch and off he goes to better things.
Men are such bigger sluts than women. i mean way. Anyone out there agree?
And I don' t want to hear the bullshit about "well women are too"
that is for a different forum.
In this question we focus on slutty men.
2006-08-23 09:32:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I wonder why it is more fun for them to hurt you after getting your trust than beforehand, kinda seems like a self esteem issue to me.
Its like 'the more hurt the bigger the man I am'
when in reality they are the smallest lowest form of human on earth.
And yeah, there are female out there that I am not proud of sharing gender with, and I've seen lots of nice guys done wrong.
But there is something sinister and totally slutty and devious about the way a man does it.
as if the adage boys will be boys justifies everything.
I don't think you sound bitter at all its an honest question for an honest screw over.
You guys get off your wimpy soap box and either answer or shut up, but don't throw in distractions, that is just lame.
2006-08-23 16:16:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, women ARE too and bashing men doesn't get any of us anywhere. There are lousy dudes out there and lousy chicks....
Learn the lesson here so you don't get burned again in the same way...if someone says "trust me" immediately wonder why they don't think you'd do that without being asked...when someone says "always" "forever" or "never" immediately question them...those words RARELY ring true...it's a sign of someone who tosses phrases around to woo others, and little sincerity is involved (or they are just very naive).
You may want to waste time focusing on "slutty men", it'll just cause you to be more bitter and stay in an ugly mood...
Be mad at the guy or guys that have wronged you, not the entire male population...that's a waste of energy on top of just being unfair.
2006-08-23 16:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men were wired to be sluts. its not our fault, nature made us that way. so find a man you can truly trust, and he wont cheat on you. another thing men are good at, is dropping something we dont want. we know if something can work or not, if it doesnt, we have no trouble getting rid of the problem. women simply cant do that, but we can. sorry, but thats how mother nature has bred us to be.
2006-08-23 16:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are slutty because women like you keep buying there bullshit excuses.that's the reason they do it. they know you will get mad but will not try to find someone who doesn't lie or cheat and take them back that way they have a receptacle till they get bored with you again
2006-08-23 16:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by bigrigdvr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to agree with you! Historically, men have ALWAYS been less trustworthy than women! When it comes to RELATIONSHIPS, it's much easier for women to love than men. I believe that's because women are more EMOTIONAL, whereas men are more INTELLECTUAL. Guys tend to be cold, harsh and unfeeling, living by the "Good Ol' Boy Creed" of, "AH! SO WHAT! IF SHE GETS HURT, I'LL JUST GO OUT AN' GET ME ANOTHER ONE!" Whereas women tend to think with THEIR HEART and take this whole "RELATIONSHIP" thing pretty seriously! "Don't SAY you love me and respect me unless you're willing to SHOW ME!" Guys tend to think SHORT TERM.....more "spur of the moment"....."Got places to go, people to see, and things to do!" Whereas women tend to think LONGTERM and like to PLAN OUT based on the WHOLE picture! That's why it's usually WOMEN who notice those "little things" that us guys usually take for granted. This ESPECIALLY holds true in the area of LOVE AND ROMANCE! Guys, don't SAY what you're not willing to BACK UP with ACTION! Trust me, she will HOLD YOU TO IT, and if you DON'T "follow through", YOU WILL REGRET IT! Love and TRUST go hand in hand! But I will say one thing: in this "women's libber's age of EQUALITY", there is a growing number of women who are as PHONEY as the men! But I still think guys have the ladies beat on this one! And probably always will! And really, the ONLY men who TRULY respect women are those that are SAVED BY JESUS CHRIST, the GREATEST "Gentleman" of all time!
2006-08-23 17:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever a man says "trust me" he's lying. You shouldn't have to ask someone to trust you, they either do BECAUSE YOU HAVE EARNED IT, or you don't, because you are a liar.
that being said, the question asker here sounds very bitter and cynical, and this is NOT good either. One man betrayed you, forget him and move on. The next guy you meet MIGHT be one of the good ones, and a bad attitude will turn him away.
2006-08-23 16:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by KB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya know, I wouldn't trust him for nothing. Men will say anything to get what they want. Don't listen to that! You will probably end up hurt.
2006-08-23 16:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by Evie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry you got burned. Men can be whores. They focus on their sexual needs and are selfish. They don't care who they hurt. It will get better I promise and this guy will be a distant memory.
2006-08-23 16:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree 100% ....I know that if i let my husband do whatever hed be hounding another woman probably...they are such dogs.
2006-08-23 16:34:41 · answer #9 · answered by machele 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree they can be. i wish there was a word in english that meant male whore, but unfortunately words like slut, tramp, and whore are for women, which sux. but yeah, men can be sluttier than women.
2006-08-23 16:35:55 · answer #10 · answered by marisha z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋