I'm only 15 so I've only given oral to 5 or 6 different guys. I'm not that experienced yet. Anyway, my boy says that it only counts if i swallow. Is this true? I want to swallow but I don't want to get pregnant. What should I do?
2006-08-23 09:31:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
you cant get pregnant from oral
2006-08-23 09:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off, it is truly horrible that you are only 15 and have already engaged in oral sex. I don't think you should be doing it, especially if you don't know what can happen when you do it. You cannot get pregnant from swallowing a man's semen. That alone is a great big red flag that you are not nearly educated or mature enough to be having any kind of sex, and YES, oral sex IS sex!
As for what you should do: stop doing what you are doing! It's disgusting for someone your age to be so experienced, or... I'm sorry, that you aren't as experienced as you think you should be for being the ripe old age of 15. GROSS!! You can't have met the love of your life in 5-7 different guys, which is the only tthing your body should be investing in...TRUE LOVE, the kinds ADULTS find, not little 15 year old girls.
2006-08-23 16:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by +SalvavidaChica+ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since this is a health question, let's talk about health. Like you can't get pregnant doing this, but you can get STDs including AIDS. And from a mental health standpoint, girl where is your self-respect? 15 and you're blowing guys by the half-dozen? You sound well on the way to a really lousy reputation. Get yourself together and stop giving yourself away. You lose a part of your ability to bond well with a guy for life every time you have sex with someone different. (and don't kid yourself, you ARE having sex) By the time you find 'the guy' you won't even recognize him because you won't know how to form a decent relationship, since yours seem to be based on whether you spit or swallow.
And frankly, the only reason they want you to swallow is that it's a power trip for them and they watch too much porn or talk too much about it with each other. Oh yeah, if you swallow for 5 or 6 guys, everyone in town will know soon enough.
2006-08-23 16:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by newbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since others have already told you you cannot get pregnant from "swallowing," I'm going to give you something else to think about.
You could get an STD or AIDS giving oral sex. Another thing you might want to consider is what in the "old days" we used to call a reputation. Why on earth do you think it's ok to give oral to "only" 5 or 6 guys? Do you care that you will become known as a slut? Sorry to call it that, but that's what it is.
Have more respect for yourself. It sounds to me as if you need a good friend or mom to put you back on the right path, because the one you're on is no good!!
2006-08-23 16:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boy is an egomaniac; there's no reason why you need to swallow... if he's ejaculating, he's already gotten his pleasure! He's just on a power trip.
If you want to, however, go ahead. You're not going to get pregnant (in case you are as ignorant of anatomy as you sadly appear to be, your mouth is not connected to your reproductive tract in any way, shape or form so there is no opportunity for sperm to meet up with egg.) You could get an STD, but you can get them without swallowing as well, so you're already putting yourself at risk.
At 15, I gotta ask, what are you getting out of this? Sex is meant to be shared by two people and if you're giving out all this pleasure and not receiving anything in return, I wonder why you'd do it at all. They're not going to love you for it... they're just going to spread the word that you're easy.
2006-08-23 18:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by mockingbird 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you CANT get pregnant form swallowing it goes into your tummy NOT your vagina or uterus!! and sounds to me like you have a bad guy. instead of asking you to swallow he is trying to pressure you into in NOT GOOD. and as far as swalloing do it when and if you want head is head wheather you finish the guy or not! plus it feels horrible in your mouth it feels and tastes like warm thick wet snot!!!! yuck do it when you want and find a guy who REALLY cares about you and dont become a slut. dont judge yourself on how many guys you give head to. just remember one day you will find that one amazing guy you want to spend your life with and what is he going to thing and feel like if he finds out you have given head to 57 guys? or had sex with 19+ guys slow down your 15
2006-08-23 16:37:06 · answer #6 · answered by TEMPTRESS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're 15? Wow. If you swallow, you won't get pregnant. It's only through sexual intercourse. *puts head down and slaps forehead*
2006-08-23 16:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by Lavina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry sweetie...you can't get pregnant from swallowing.
2006-08-23 16:35:12 · answer #8 · answered by Big V 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u can't get preggers from swallowing you numb skull!!!!
and only 5/6!!!! omg.... are u really dense? lol
um so yeh.. jst swallow......
it is weird.. but jst do it.... and no its not true.. but it is politer to swallow.
2006-08-23 16:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
think to yourself: "is it worth it to swallow with THIS particular guy? or can i wait until i'm older and more experienced?"
2006-08-23 16:36:08 · answer #10 · answered by Cindy(: 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can spit or swallow, they just like swallowing better b\c you dont have to stop, btw you might want to consider slowing your sexual activity down.
2006-08-23 16:35:22 · answer #11 · answered by Kristen S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋